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No one is going to rescue you: Finding Strength Within

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In this heartfelt episode, Dr. B delves into the profound journey of coping with intense grief and trauma. Dr. B shares personal experiences and challenges the notion of external rescues, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-love in the healing process.

Key Points:

  1. The Illusion of External Rescue:
    • Reflecting on societal influences, Dr. B discusses the pervasive idea that someone or something should rescue us from pain.
    • Examining the impact of movies and cultural narratives that often portray a hero rescuing individuals from difficult situations.
  2. The Spiritual Conflict:
    • Dr. B candidly explores the spiritual conflict that arises when faced with profound grief and trauma.
    • Discussing the struggle with the belief that a higher power, in this case, God, should intervene and alleviate the pain.
  3. Separating Trauma and Grief:
    • Sharing personal experiences of losing a child and the dual challenge of coping with both grief and trauma.
    • Highlighting the need to differentiate between grief, a natural emotional response, and trauma, which requires a deliberate effort to let go.
  4. No One Can Rescue You:
    • Acknowledging the support of the community and the importance of accepting and appreciating external help.
    • Emphasizing the core message: true healing comes from within, and no one else can rescue an individual from their pain.
  5. Tips for Self-Rescue:
    • Encouraging listeners to engage in introspection by writing down their stories and becoming comfortable with their narratives.
    • Offering three essential tips for self-rescue: knowing oneself, liking oneself, and ultimately growing to love oneself.
  6. The Five Selves Series:
    • Directing listeners to explore Dr. B's series on the "Five Selves," which provides a comprehensive guide to self-care, self-regulation, spiritual well-being, continual self-improvement, and the importance of physical movement.
  7. Closing Thoughts:
    • Expressing gratitude for the support system while recognizing its limitations in fully rescuing from pain.
    • Encouraging viewers to embark on their personal journey of self-discovery and healing.

  continue reading

240 episoder

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Manage episode 398540642 series 3551826
Innehåll tillhandahållet av Cristi Bundukamara. Allt poddinnehåll inklusive avsnitt, grafik och podcastbeskrivningar laddas upp och tillhandahålls direkt av Cristi Bundukamara eller deras podcastplattformspartner. Om du tror att någon använder ditt upphovsrättsskyddade verk utan din tillåtelse kan du följa processen som beskrivs här https://sv.player.fm/legal.

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. B delves into the profound journey of coping with intense grief and trauma. Dr. B shares personal experiences and challenges the notion of external rescues, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-love in the healing process.

Key Points:

  1. The Illusion of External Rescue:
    • Reflecting on societal influences, Dr. B discusses the pervasive idea that someone or something should rescue us from pain.
    • Examining the impact of movies and cultural narratives that often portray a hero rescuing individuals from difficult situations.
  2. The Spiritual Conflict:
    • Dr. B candidly explores the spiritual conflict that arises when faced with profound grief and trauma.
    • Discussing the struggle with the belief that a higher power, in this case, God, should intervene and alleviate the pain.
  3. Separating Trauma and Grief:
    • Sharing personal experiences of losing a child and the dual challenge of coping with both grief and trauma.
    • Highlighting the need to differentiate between grief, a natural emotional response, and trauma, which requires a deliberate effort to let go.
  4. No One Can Rescue You:
    • Acknowledging the support of the community and the importance of accepting and appreciating external help.
    • Emphasizing the core message: true healing comes from within, and no one else can rescue an individual from their pain.
  5. Tips for Self-Rescue:
    • Encouraging listeners to engage in introspection by writing down their stories and becoming comfortable with their narratives.
    • Offering three essential tips for self-rescue: knowing oneself, liking oneself, and ultimately growing to love oneself.
  6. The Five Selves Series:
    • Directing listeners to explore Dr. B's series on the "Five Selves," which provides a comprehensive guide to self-care, self-regulation, spiritual well-being, continual self-improvement, and the importance of physical movement.
  7. Closing Thoughts:
    • Expressing gratitude for the support system while recognizing its limitations in fully rescuing from pain.
    • Encouraging viewers to embark on their personal journey of self-discovery and healing.

  continue reading

240 episoder

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