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Envy
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Innehåll tillhandahållet av Sam Ellis, Joe Loh and Ali Catramados, Sam Ellis, Joe Loh, and Ali Catramados. Allt poddinnehåll inklusive avsnitt, grafik och podcastbeskrivningar laddas upp och tillhandahålls direkt av Sam Ellis, Joe Loh and Ali Catramados, Sam Ellis, Joe Loh, and Ali Catramados eller deras podcastplattformspartner. Om du tror att någon använder ditt upphovsrättsskyddade verk utan din tillåtelse kan du följa processen som beskrivs här https://sv.player.fm/legal.
Study envy to find messages from our future selves
We unpack the role of envy, not as a toxic emotion to be avoided or ashamed of, but a normal feeling that gives us clues to understanding our unmet desires, unfulfilled potential, and prompting necessary change.
- envy vs jealousy. Jealousy is possessiveness, envy is wanting what others have, or wanting to be them
- becoming less envious of others as we get older
- the emptiness at the heart of existence remains in place no matter who we are or what we have
- house prices, salaries, wealth distribution
- complex, changing feelings, hiding then reveal the path to self-growth
- fitting in vs standing out
- being the object of envy
- being envious of contemporaries, such as friends, people we went to school or work with
- having envy towards our own partners
- bike shorts/yoga pants: acceptable clothing for everyone?
- getting beneath the surface of desire, wanting a greater sense of freedom
- gender and clothing: do women have greater freedom in terms of clothing?
- 'painful but necessary steps'
- Ali's dream of growing more of her own food
- self-envy, a 'better version of ourself' from the past
- Joe's epic case of personal envy towards a contemporary
- therapy: like cleaning a mirror, with the image becoming clearer over time.
- daily transformations that count towards personal growth
- the importance of casual conversations for therapeutic value
Creators & Guests
- Ali Catramados - Host
- Joe Loh - Host
- Sam Ellis - Host
- (00:00) - Introduction and Welcome
- (00:28) - Discussing Alain de Botton's Quote on Envy
- (01:41) - Understanding Envy and Jealousy
- (02:05) - Personal Experiences with Envy
- (02:48) - Envy and Lifestyle Aspirations
- (03:24) - Debate on Work and Lifestyle
- (05:30) - Envy in Youth and Adulthood
- (05:55) - Envy and Money
- (08:49) - Envy of partners in relationships
- (11:32) - Envy and Personal Style
- (29:16) - The Illusion of Success
- (29:24) - The Changing Landscape of Attainable Dreams
- (30:04) - The Struggle with Identity and Expectations
- (30:20) - The Reality of Career Success
- (31:20) - The Shift in Perception of Wealth and Success
- (32:32) - The Struggle with Personal Limitations
- (33:34) - The Reality of Life's Unpredictability
- (34:30) - The Desire for Freedom from Wage Slavery
- (35:12) - The Struggle with Self-Blame and Helplessness
- (37:36) - The Journey Towards Self-Reliance and Acceptance
- (42:31) - The Power of Reflection and Self-Understanding
00:00 Theme, intro
00:28 Alain de Botton's Quote on Envy
01:41 Understanding Envy and Jealousy
02:05 Personal Experiences with Envy
02:48 Envy and Lifestyle Aspirations
03:24 Debate on Work and Lifestyle
05:30 Envy in Youth and Adulthood
05:55 Envy and Money
08:49 Envy of partners in relationships
11:32 Envy and Personal Style
29:16 The Illusion of Success
29:24 The Changing Landscape of Attainable Dreams
30:04 The Struggle with Identity and Expectations
30:20 The Reality of Career Success
31:20 The Shift in Perception of Wealth and Success
32:32 The Struggle with Personal Limitations
33:34 The Reality of Life's Unpredictability
34:30 The Desire for Freedom from Wage Slavery
35:12 The Struggle with Self-Blame and Helplessness
37:36 The Journey Towards Self-Reliance and Acceptance
42:31 The Power of Reflection and Self-Understanding
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