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Ep. 189 Quiet Wins

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Key Points:

  • Host Heidi Benjaminsen discusses the importance of "quiet wins" - personal victories in emotional life and relationships that often go unnoticed
  • These wins build confidence and strengthen family relationships, even when others don't explicitly acknowledge them

Notable Quiet Wins Discussed:

  • Staying calm and curious during difficult conversations, especially with children
  • Not participating in gossip or spreading private information about others
  • Declining invitations/opportunities that don't align with your values or energy
  • Resisting the urge to correct or give unsolicited advice, especially to children
  • Allowing others (particularly children) to manage their own responsibilities
  • Speaking positively to yourself after failures or setbacks
  • Apologizing without casting blame on others
  • Making responsible financial decisions, even when unsexy or invisible
  • Remaining non-defensive when facing criticism or belittling comments
  • Maintaining a positive attitude after committing to help, even if reluctant
  • Disengaging from negative discussions without feeling compelled to respond
  • Being direct about important issues while maintaining professionalism
  • Avoiding guilt trips with teens/young adults when they decline family activities

Key Takeaway: While these wins may be quiet, their impact is significant - they build trust, strengthen relationships, and develop personal integrity. As Heidi emphasizes, "A confident mother is the greatest gift to her family - not a perfect mother."

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190 episoder

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Key Points:

  • Host Heidi Benjaminsen discusses the importance of "quiet wins" - personal victories in emotional life and relationships that often go unnoticed
  • These wins build confidence and strengthen family relationships, even when others don't explicitly acknowledge them

Notable Quiet Wins Discussed:

  • Staying calm and curious during difficult conversations, especially with children
  • Not participating in gossip or spreading private information about others
  • Declining invitations/opportunities that don't align with your values or energy
  • Resisting the urge to correct or give unsolicited advice, especially to children
  • Allowing others (particularly children) to manage their own responsibilities
  • Speaking positively to yourself after failures or setbacks
  • Apologizing without casting blame on others
  • Making responsible financial decisions, even when unsexy or invisible
  • Remaining non-defensive when facing criticism or belittling comments
  • Maintaining a positive attitude after committing to help, even if reluctant
  • Disengaging from negative discussions without feeling compelled to respond
  • Being direct about important issues while maintaining professionalism
  • Avoiding guilt trips with teens/young adults when they decline family activities

Key Takeaway: While these wins may be quiet, their impact is significant - they build trust, strengthen relationships, and develop personal integrity. As Heidi emphasizes, "A confident mother is the greatest gift to her family - not a perfect mother."

Sign up for a consult call here.

  continue reading

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