EP49: Adding One More Kid To The Tribe - Are You Ready?

The ABC's Of Preschool

In this Episode, She takes on a question many families face: Should we have another child? Whether you're contemplating adding to your tribe or still on the fence, this episode dives into the heart of this personal and complex decision. She shares her personal insights, from the chaos of early parenting to the love that multiplies with each new child. If you’ve ever wondered if you’re ready to expand your family, this episode will help you reflect on the emotional, practical, and financial factors involved.

Key Highlights:

[00:00 - 02:00] Intro: Acknowledging Parenthood Choices

• Amber opens the discussion by emphasizing the deeply personal nature of deciding whether to have kids or add more to the family.

• She touches on how society is slowly accepting that not everyone chooses to become a parent, and that's perfectly okay.

[02:01 - 04:00] The Emotions Behind Expanding Your Family

• Amber shares the mixed emotions that come with deciding to have another child—excitement, doubt, and anticipation of more chaos.

• She recounts her own journey as a mom of five and reflects on how her family dynamic evolved with each new child.

[04:01 - 06:00] Navigating Pregnancy and Labor Fears

• Amber discusses how fears of another difficult pregnancy or labor can hold parents back.

• She opens up about her own traumatic labor experience and how it shaped her thoughts on expanding her family.

[06:01 - 08:00] The Impact of Adding Another Child

• How adding another baby can shift the balance within the family, affecting both the parents and older siblings.

• Amber highlights the inevitable life changes and the increase in practical responsibilities, like budgeting for diapers and food.

[08:01 - 10:00] Age Gaps and Energy Levels

• Amber talks about the importance of considering age gaps between children and how they can influence family dynamics.

• She shares her personal preference for having her children close in age, though she acknowledges that every family's situation is unique.

[10:01 - 12:00] Budgeting for More Kids

• Amber discusses the financial implications of having more children and why it’s crucial to budget for diapers, daycare, and other essentials.

• She emphasizes that while kids can be expensive, families don’t need to break the bank to raise happy children.

[12:01 - 14:00] More Love, More Fun, But Also More Stress

• Amber reflects on the balance of having more children: more love, fun, and joy, but also more stress, noise, and mess.

• She shares that despite the challenges, the love multiplies with each child, and the relationships between siblings bring a special kind of joy.

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Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.

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Tweetable Quotes:

“Nobody should ever feel pressure into having another child, period.” - Ms. Amber

“Every child, every little human soul that comes into this world is completely different on their own path.” - Ms. Amber

“The more kids you have, the more love that starts brewing in your heart and soul and you love them all so deeply.” - Ms. Amber