Welcome to the world of Trooth Be Told where nothing is off limits. Join co-host Trooth ,DJ Crispin, Tall Can Javie and friends as they discus Love, Relationships, Sex, Life, Death and everything in between. Giving it all to you very raw and uncensored with their version of the TROOTH. so join us and Lets Get Nasty... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/support
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Hi I'm Dr. Kat Van Kirk, board certified Clinical Sexologist and licensed Marriage and Sex Therapist. Join my gay boyfriend, Ross Martineau and I on the couch with a cocktail as we dish about sex and relationships. We answer your questions about sex, dating, marriage, STDs, sex ed, and the trials and tribulations of life and love...along with a little celebrity gossip. It's a two-fer as your questions are answered from both of our perspectives. We have more fun than we should, so join us! Fi ...
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Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein invite guests to join an ongoing conversation about sex, addiction, and relationships. Wendy, Dan, Jeanne, and Tim are experts in the fields of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and trauma resolution.
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Velcro Love: A Podcast About Attachment Theory, Relationships, Therapy, and Sex This podcast is place where we discuss all things attachment theory and relationships and therapy and sex. These are some of the questions that we address on the podcast: - Why is the podcast called "Velcro Love"? (Hint: Because Velcro holds things together tightly, but it not rigid) - What is Attachment Theory and why is it so important? - What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and why is is so great and so h ...
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Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.e ...
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Stacey has been a phone sex operator for more than 17 years and has heard every fantasy imaginable. Need advice on a sexual fetish, asking someone out, dealing with a lost love, heartbreak, weird sex experience, or anything else you can think of? You can’t shock Stacey, she’s been a virtual “therapist” for 17 years for her clients. ***not a license therapist
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Young & Holmes: Celebrity Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Commitment, Affairs, Breakups, and Divorce
Julius Young & Kimberly Holmes: Entertainment Journalist & Relationship Expert
Want to know the story behind the celebrity couple? We unpack the latest news about celebrity relationships and analyze what they teach us about love, sex, commitment, marriage, and our own lives.
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Right to REAL Love: Advice for Christian Women on Dating, Relationships, Men and Sex
J. Immanuel helps Christian women understand men, dating and relationships
The #1 dating and relationship podcast for Christian women and Women of Faith where I provide you with an honest single man of faith's perspective on dating, relationships and men. I keep it biblical, practical and real.
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Conversations: Disclosure to Children with Casey Allison
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Today, we're discussing the impact of sexual betrayal on families and children, a vital but often overlooked topic. We're excited to have Casey Allison, a certified partner coach, who has created a unique children's book addressing this issue. Her book provides age-appropriate explanations about betrayal and recovery, featuring beautiful illustrati…
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311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange)
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Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like something was "off" but you couldn't quite name what it was? Ever been uncomfortable with the "mess" of dealing with someone else's emotions, or been hesitant to share your own out of a fear of rocking the boat? Then this episode will resonate…
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Conversations: Can a Betrayed Partner Traumatize the Addict?
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In this insightful discussion, we explore the nuanced dynamics of trauma within relationships affected by addiction. We consider the possibility that partners' behaviors, both before and after discovery, can contribute to the addict's experience of trauma. By examining the interplay between autonomy, codependency, and unconscious coping mechanisms,…
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Quick Conversations: How Does Abandonment Correlate With Addiction?
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In this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the concept of abandonment wounds in relationships affected by addiction. We explore the idea that partners' actions, such as focusing on personal goals or life changes, may inadvertently exacerbate these wounds, potentially contributing to addictive behaviors in the addict.…
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310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me)
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Sexy time, pickers, and dating, oh my! Here I answer the following three common client or listener questions: "I’ve heard women say it’s a red flag if the man has not had relationship experience. What do you say?" "One issue I've had is selecting the right female partner. What is a good way to guide myself to go about doing this?" (My picker is off…
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Quick Conversations: Can Addicts Be Enabled By Their Partners?
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In this discussion, we explore whether partners enable addictive behaviors in relationships affected by addiction. We note that while some partners may engage in behaviors to stay connected to the addict, we hesitate to label it as enabling. Our conversation highlights the complexity of addressing both addiction and underlying issues in therapy, em…
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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange)
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When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can relate to scenarios like these: You're worn out and exhausted because you're always the one reaching out to your wife and never getting anything back You're great co-parents but your sex life is DOA As a couple you rarely or never open…
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In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss seeking treatment for sex addiction and betrayal trauma with Dr. Rob Weiss. We will breakdown his insights on when to seek treatment, different treatment centers, and affordability.Av Timzi9
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308: Are you staying together for the kids? There may be another way to go. (ft. Jason Lange)
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If your marriage isn't working, you're suffering. Maybe you're fighting all the time (whether aloud or not). Maybe you're great co-parents, but you don't connect in an intimate way anymore. And when I say "intimate" I'm not just talking about sex; I'm talking about warmth, closeness, and connection. Should you automatically stay in a relationship b…
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Conversations: What Is Healthy Masturbation?
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In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we delve into the topic of healthy masturbation. We explore the nuances of what constitutes healthy self-pleasuring versus addictive behaviors within the context of addiction recovery and relationships. Our discussion navigates various perspectives, including the role of masturb…
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307: What's the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James)
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Have you ever been scared of your wife / woman partner? Ever been harmed by her? If yes, it's likely you never felt like you could talk to anyone about it because you were afraid of what they would say, or whether they would shame you. In polarity work, we often talk about feminine storm. But where's the line between feminine storm, feminine rage, …
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Quick Conversations: What Is Healthy Masturbation In Terms Of Sex Addicts?
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Join us as we dive into the topic of healthy masturbation and what it means in the context of sexuality and addiction recovery. We want to emphasize the importance of changing one's relationship with masturbation rather than simply stopping the behavior altogether.Av Timzi9
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306: Boner shame! Let's talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange)
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"I’m getting a boner — what’s she going to think??" So begins the conflict for a lot of boys and men have around their cock. From a young age -- basically from the time boners start to be a thing, "It’s like a lot of men are constantly tracking, ‘Am I having an erection and if I do, how do I hide it?’" The thing is, hiding and secrets go hand-in-ha…
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Quick Conversations: What Circumstances Do Sex Addicts Think About Masturbating?
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We want to tackle the sensitive topic of healthy masturbation within the context of relationships affected by betrayal and addiction. Listen to our quick conversation to address the concerns and fears partners may have about their addicted spouse considering a new approach to masturbation. Our conversation delves into the complexity of individual s…
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305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming
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Did you grow up with a religious background? Then congrats, you likely experienced sexual shame! Perhaps you still do to this day. The truth is, it's deeply confusing to grow up having completely natural sexual urges, but be told you're bad or wrong for having them. In the words of the panelists: "For a long time I thought, 'What’s wrong with me? W…
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This episode was recorded back in October of 2023 and a lot has changed since then we'll let you know what those changes are in future episodes in the mean time we hope you guys enjoy this episode. We appreciate your continuing support. Thanks! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/messageSupport this p…
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304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange)
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"Needing space within a love relationship is crucial for maintaining my identity ... It’s not merely about taking a break; it’s about preserving a sense of self that can slowly wither in the absence of such space." So says one of our clients, eloquently speaking to the need and also the cost of not getting space when it's required. Here we discuss …
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303: 'Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.' (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men))
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When you were a boy, did you feel comfortable being your full self? Did you feel at ease around becoming a man -- like you knew what that meant and smoothly moved into that identity? We live in a world where boys and young men often feel like it's not safe to be themselves, and where it can be confusing to grow into manhood. According to Nat Damon,…
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302: 'I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.' (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore)
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What if you could read about the sex that affected someone so profoundly they were never the same? What if you wrote about the sex that changed you in that way? If you're turned on by audio porn, ASMR, or sexy stories (either reading them or them being read to you), you're not alone. While we seem to be fixated on men being obsessed with visual por…
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Conversations: You Asked, We Answered
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In the episode, we discuss the answers you sent in for your mailbag questions. You all asked: Could a sexless long term marriage be a reason for sex addiction? Is it possible to enable the sex addicts behavior? What's the best role a partner can take towards the addicted spouse?Av Timzi9
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301: What's the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange)
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"As men, it often feels like we should just know how to succeed in a relationship, how to be great in bed, how to be successful in life, all under the counterintuitive expectation that we figure it all out on our own and never ask for help." Part of our my intention with this podcast is to help men succeed in sex, dating, and relationships with wom…
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Quick Conversations: Is it possible to enable a sex addicts behavior?
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Join us for a deep dive into the complexities of change within relationships impacted by betrayal and addiction. In this thought-provoking discussion, our panel delves into the intricacies of transformation, highlighting the pivotal role of discomfort in catalyzing meaningful shifts.Av Timzi9
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300: What's it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas)
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A lot of our clients crave more intimacy or closeness with their wife/relationship partner. Often this includes a longing, or a sense of something missing. As Lucas, our guest here, put it, "The feeling I recall most strongly was a sense of loneliness." Have you ever felt lonely in your relationship? If you’ve wished you and your partner were close…
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Quick Conversations: Could a sexless long term marriage be a reason for sex addiction?
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Join us for a thought-provoking discussion as we delve into the complex interplay between sexlessness and sex addiction within marriages. In this candid conversation, our panelists offer insights and perspectives on whether a sexless long-term marriage could be a reason for sex addiction.Av Timzi9
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299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun)
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Would you ever consider using a matchmaker? In a world of dating apps (and let's be real -- those are rough for a LOT of people!), not to mention a whole lotta ghosting, matchmaking is an appealing notion for many. Plus, matchmakers play a unique role in that they speak to both parties, before and after dates. They're able, therefore, to give peopl…
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298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication -- let's talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women)
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This episode is pulled from the podcast Ask Women, where I myself was the guest! We delve into my sex research here, in which I asked over 1,065 women about the men who were best in bed. But this isn't just about finding the clit. It's a deeper conversation about how to talk about difficult subjects. Why is hard to talk about what we actually like …
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Conversations: Building Lasting Relationships with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith
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Today, we're thrilled to welcome authors Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to discuss their book 'Building True Intimacy'. Let's explore the layers of trust, vulnerability, and connection that form the foundation of lasting relationships.Av Timzi9
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297: The problems with polarity (ft. Jason Lange)
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Polarity can help you have a hot sex & dating life, not to mention a stronger love relationship overall. And like many things in life, it's not a perfect concept; there are issues with it. "In what ways have you found polarity to be useful in your sex and relationship life? In what ways have you found it to be off or problematic?" I posed these que…
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296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange)
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As a woman, I sometimes feel like saying to all the Nice Guys out there: We need you! We need you on the court, in the game, on the field of Life. We need you not just as romantic partners (though we do desperately want you there), but as fathers, as colleagues, as teammates. And we need you to be in your power. We need you to be able to speak up f…
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295: Ever 'fallen into' a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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Here's a pattern we've noticed in a lot of the men we work with: They've never gone after the women they really wanted. As one man put it, "A lot of times the girls that I’ve attracted have come to me … and haven't been the most stable." For some men, these dating relationships have even turned into marriages -- without the man necessarily wanting …
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294: How do I rebuild trust with a partner? (ft. me!)
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It's a solo episode! I pulled together some questions from clients or listeners, and go into depth on them. Remember that you can always send me your question or questions -- just email me at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Everything is on the table, from sex and dating to relationships and repair. I want to hear from you! Here are the questions I answe…
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293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange)
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Does it feel exiting for your woman to be fully open with you, feel deeply cherished, and want to f*** your brains out? Then you’re going to want to listen to this one. You’re likely familiar with polarity — that sacred dance between alpha & omega. It’s a potent force that shows up in dating, sex, love relationships, and beyond (and helps explain t…
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