THIS IS Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant People

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In Her Ellement

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Navigating Career Pivots and Grit with Milo’s Avni Patel Thompson 26:18

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How do you know when it’s time to make your next big career move? With International Women’s Day around the corner, we are excited to feature Avni Patel Thompson, Founder and CEO of Milo. Avni is building technology that directly supports the often overlooked emotional and logistical labor that falls on parents—especially women. Milo is an AI assistant designed to help families manage that invisible load more efficiently. In this episode, Avni shares her journey from studying chemistry to holding leadership roles at global brands like Adidas and Starbucks, to launching her own ventures. She discusses how she approaches career transitions, the importance of unpleasant experiences, and why she’s focused on making everyday life easier for parents. [01:26] Avni's University Days and Early Career [04:36] Non-Linear Career Paths [05:16] Pursuing Steep Learning Curves [11:51] Entrepreneurship and Safety Nets [15:22] Lived Experiences and Milo [19:55] Avni’s In Her Ellement Moment [20:03] Reflections Links: Avni Patel Thompson on LinkedIn Suchi Srinivasan on LinkedIn Kamila Rakhimova on LinkedIn Ipsos report on the future of parenting About In Her Ellement: In Her Ellement highlights the women and allies leading the charge in digital, business, and technology innovation. Through engaging conversations, the podcast explores their journeys—celebrating successes and acknowledging the balance between work and family. Most importantly, it asks: when was the moment you realized you hadn’t just arrived—you were truly in your element? About The Hosts: Suchi Srinivasan is an expert in AI and digital transformation. Originally from India, her career includes roles at trailblazing organizations like Bell Labs and Microsoft. In 2011, she co-founded the Cleanweb Hackathon, a global initiative driving IT-powered climate solutions with over 10,000 members across 25+ countries. She also advises Women in Cloud, aiming to create $1B in economic opportunities for women entrepreneurs by 2030. Kamila Rakhimova is a fintech leader whose journey took her from Tajikistan to the U.S., where she built a career on her own terms. Leveraging her English proficiency and international relations expertise, she discovered the power of microfinance and moved to the U.S., eventually leading Amazon's Alexa Fund to support underrepresented founders. Subscribe to In Her Ellement on your podcast app of choice to hear meaningful conversations with women in digital, business, and technology.…

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Are you stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable or avoidant partners?

In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, dives deep into the subconscious patterns that draw us to these dynamics. Learn the three critical reasons behind this pattern and discover actionable steps to break free and create meaningful, fulfilling relationships.

Thais combines her expertise in attachment theory, the subconscious mind, and neuroplasticity to uncover the hidden comfort zones that shape our connections. She also shares a transformative exercise to help you rewire these patterns and shift your attraction to healthier dynamics.

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The Thais Gibson Podcast

THIS IS Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant People

The Thais Gibson Podcast

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The Fearful Avoidant and Anxious Attachment Style Relationship 34:35

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why is the anxious + fearful avoidant dynamic so intense—and so difficult to navigate? This powerful pairing is often filled with deep emotional connection, high sensitivity, and equally high volatility . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais explores the unique challenges and emotional cycles that define this dynamic—and provides clear guidance on how to move toward emotional security and lasting love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why this dynamic often begins with fireworks but ends in chaos ✔️ The core wounds of both anxious and fearful avoidant attachment styles ✔️ How triggers like abandonment, betrayal, and feeling trapped play out over time ✔️ Unhealthy coping mechanisms to avoid—and what to do instead ✔️ How to communicate with vulnerability, validate each other, and avoid conflict escalation ✔️ Concrete tools to self-soothe, break codependent cycles, and build trust ✔️ How to maintain connection even when core wounds are activated If you've been in an anxious/fearful avoidant relationship—or are navigating one now—this episode will help you feel seen, supported, and equipped to move toward a healthier relationship foundation . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 R ead More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #relationshipdynamics #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #emotionaltriggers Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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7 Clear Signs A Dismissive Avoidant Actually DOES Like You 13:02

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Dismissive avoidants can be hard to read—but the signs are there. Dismissive avoidants often hide their feelings, leading many to assume they aren’t interested at all. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down 7 subtle yet clear signs a dismissive avoidant actually DOES like you , so you can finally stop second-guessing their behavior and understand the true indicators of interest. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may seem distant even when they’re into you ✔️ How consistency is one of the first hidden signs of interest ✔️ Why clearly communicated needs—especially stated in the positive—get results ✔️ How and when dismissive avoidants actually do open up emotionally ✔️ Why they need more space—and how asking for it can be a sign of care ✔️ The real meaning behind “I enjoy spending time with you” ✔️ When they start including you in their inner circle and introducing you to friends If you’ve ever been left wondering, “Do they like me or not?” , this episode will help you confidently read between the lines and understand how avoidants express genuine interest —even if it’s not always in the most obvious way. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipsigns #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #emotionalconnection #selfhealing #personaldevelopment Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Reprogram Core Wounds & Your Subconscious Fear of Abandonment 25:29

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you stuck in a cycle of fear, anxiety, and abandonment triggers? For those with anxious attachment , the fear of abandonment can feel overwhelming, leading to clinginess, overthinking, and emotional distress in relationships . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais walks you through how to reprogram core wounds at the subconscious level , so you can finally break free from painful emotional patterns and build lasting self-security . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The real reason anxious attachment styles fear abandonment ✔️ Why childhood inconsistency creates core wounds of rejection and unworthiness ✔️ The 5-step process to heal emotional triggers and self-soothe effectively ✔️ How to stop relying on external validation and develop emotional independence ✔️ Why subconscious reprogramming is the key to breaking toxic relationship cycles ✔️ The most powerful daily practices to rewire your attachment patterns for good If you've ever felt like you’re constantly chasing love, overanalyzing texts, or struggling with deep-seated fear of rejection , this episode will give you actionable tools to heal, shift your mindset, and feel more secure in yourself and your relationships . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #corewounds Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Relationships & The Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style 21:01

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What does a relationship look like with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant attachment styles often struggle with emotional closeness, vulnerability, and expressing needs , which can create unique relationship challenges. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or you identify with this attachment style yourself, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast explores why dismissive avoidants behave the way they do—and how to navigate these dynamics in a healthy way . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The core childhood experiences that shape dismissive avoidant attachment ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle with emotional connection and communication ✔️ How to support a dismissive avoidant partner without triggering them ✔️ The most effective ways to build trust and closeness over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants self-soothe—and why they withdraw during conflict ✔️ Key strategies for overcoming avoidance and building a healthier attachment style If you've ever felt frustrated in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or struggled with opening up, trusting others, and maintaining deep emotional connections , this episode is for you. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Your Fearful Avoidant Ex Realizes THESE Things After A Break Up 22:58

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What happens when a fearful avoidant reflects on a breakup? Fearful avoidants have complex emotional patterns —they crave connection but fear intimacy, making breakups especially intense. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais shares three major realizations fearful avoidants often have after a breakup , including the emotional patterns they struggle with, their regrets, and what happens when they gain clarity about their role in relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How fearful avoidants reflect on their breakups over time ✔️ The three major relationship patterns they often regret ✔️ Why they feel trapped by their own emotional cycles ✔️ How their subconscious fears of abandonment and engulfment play out post-breakup ✔️ Why they often expect others to fight for them while simultaneously pushing them away ✔️ How self-awareness and healing can shift their relationship patterns for good If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my fearful avoidant ex ever realize what happened?” , this episode will help you understand their post-breakup reflections and what it means for your own healing journey . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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The Fearful Avoidant & The 6 Stages Of A Relationship 21:38

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How does a fearful avoidant experience the six stages of a relationship? Fearful avoidants go through unique emotional cycles in relationships , often fluctuating between deep connection and emotional withdrawal . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down how fearful avoidants move through each stage of a relationship , including the challenges they face and how to navigate these stages for a healthier, more secure connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 6 stages of a relationship and how fearful avoidants experience each one ✔️ Why they thrive in the dating phase but struggle with commitment ✔️ How fear of engulfment and abandonment plays out in relationships ✔️ Why the power struggle stage is make-or-break for fearful avoidants ✔️ How to move toward stability, deep commitment, and lasting love ✔️ Practical strategies for working through emotional triggers and avoidance If you've ever been in a relationship with a fearful avoidant (or are one yourself), this episode will help you understand their patterns and how to navigate relationships more effectively . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshipstages #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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When Your Ex Avoidant Realizes They Made A Mistake… 13:51

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do dismissive avoidants ever regret leaving? Dismissive avoidants are known for suppressing emotions, pulling away from closeness, and avoiding vulnerability —but what happens when they realize they made a mistake after a breakup? In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down the most common patterns dismissive avoidants go through post-breakup, how they process regret, and whether they will reach out or avoid dealing with their emotions altogether . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants take longer to process regret after a breakup ✔️ The key signs a dismissive avoidant is realizing they made a mistake ✔️ Why they often don’t reach out—even when they miss you ✔️ How they suppress emotions to avoid feeling loss and vulnerability ✔️ What happens when they reflect on past relationships in hindsight ✔️ How to handle it if they do reach out (or if they don’t) ✔️ The difference between genuine regret vs. reaching out for comfort If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my dismissive avoidant ex ever think about me?” or “Will they ever realize what they lost?” , this episode will help you understand their post-breakup mindset and what it means for your healing and closure . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Overcome Your Core Wounds & Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind 25:49

för 12 dagar sedan25:49

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are your core wounds keeping you stuck in painful relationship patterns? Many of us go through life repeating the same emotional cycles, not realizing that our core wounds and subconscious programming are dictating how we feel, behave, and connect with others. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down how to identify, understand, and reprogram your core wounds so you can break free from painful triggers and experience deep, lasting transformation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The science behind core wounds and how they develop ✔️ How your subconscious mind filters reality based on past experiences ✔️ The 5-step method to reprogram painful emotional triggers ✔️ Why fearful avoidants struggle with emotional regulation and self-worth ✔️ How to stop over-personalizing situations and ruminating on negative thoughts ✔️ The most effective daily practices to create new, empowering beliefs If you’ve ever felt stuck in emotional pain, repeating old patterns, or struggling with deep-seated wounds , this episode will give you actionable tools to heal and reprogram your subconscious mind at the root level . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #corewounds Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Win Back a Fearful Avoidant Partner 22:18

för 13 dagar sedan22:18

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you win back a fearful avoidant partner? Fearful avoidants crave deep emotional connection but often struggle with trust, vulnerability, and consistency in relationships. If you’re looking to repair a relationship, reconnect, or rekindle love with a fearful avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast walks you through the right way to approach reconciliation—without losing yourself in the process . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why fearful avoidants pull away and end relationships ✔️ The biggest mistakes people make when trying to win them back ✔️ How to rebuild trust and emotional connection in a safe way ✔️ The key differences between male and female fearful avoidants ✔️ Why boundaries and self-awareness are essential for reconciliation ✔️ How to set a clear deadline to avoid emotional limbo If you've ever asked yourself, "Can this relationship be repaired?" , this episode will help you navigate the complexities of a fearful avoidant’s emotional needs while maintaining your self-respect and well-being . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshiprecovery #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Breaking Down 6 Avoidant Texting Patterns that Confuse Everyone! 15:53

för 14 dagar sedan15:53

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why do dismissive avoidants send confusing texts? If you’ve ever been puzzled by the texting habits of a dismissive avoidant, you’re not alone! From indirect messages to last-minute plans, these texting behaviors can be frustrating and difficult to interpret . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down six common avoidant texting patterns, why they happen, and what they really mean —so you can stop feeling confused and start communicating effectively. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants send vague or indirect texts instead of being clear ✔️ How last-minute texts are often a sign of avoidance, not lack of interest ✔️ Why avoidants ghost for short periods—and what it actually means ✔️ How their fear of commitment and emotional vulnerability shapes their texting behavior ✔️ The most common reasons dismissive avoidants cancel plans indirectly ✔️ How to respond effectively without playing guessing games If you've ever thought, "Why are they so inconsistent?" or "Do they even like me?" , this episode will help you understand the avoidant mindset and navigate these texting patterns with clarity . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #textinghabits #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #avoidantbehavior Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Why Avoidants MUST Learn to Be Vulnerable to Build a Healthy Relationship 57:29

för 16 dagar sedan57:29

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why is vulnerability so difficult—but so necessary—in relationships? Many people, especially those with avoidant attachment styles, struggle to open up and express their emotions. Yet, vulnerability is what transforms infatuation into love, strengthens bonds, and deepens emotional connection . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais and co-host Mike DiZio explore why vulnerability is challenging, how to communicate it effectively, and why it’s the key to building lasting, fulfilling relationships . If you’ve ever struggled with expressing your emotions, setting boundaries, or feeling safe enough to be your true self in relationships , this episode will give you the tools to overcome fear, deepen intimacy, and create authentic connections . Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:48 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Mike's Story) 05:24 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Thais' Story) 10:26 - 7-Day Free Trial 11:16 - Misconceptions About Vulnerability 17:31 - How to Approach a Dismissive Avoidant with Vulnerability 26:54 - Vulnerability Allows You to Be Loved & Fall in Love 33:10 - Rocket Money 35:02 - When You and a Loved One Have Opposing Views 41:01 - If You're Afraid to Share Vulnerably With Others 52:26 - Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Save a Relationship with a Female Dismissive Avoidant 22:55

för 19 dagar sedan22:55

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you save a relationship with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant women often struggle with emotional expression, vulnerability, and receiving love, which can create unique challenges in relationships . If you're wondering how to rebuild trust, repair emotional distance, and reconnect , this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast will give you the key strategies to make it work—while ensuring your own needs are met. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why female dismissive avoidants leave relationships and build resentment ✔️ How to rebuild emotional trust and create safety in communication ✔️ The importance of boundaries and expressing your needs clearly ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle to ask for support, connection, and intimacy ✔️ How to approach reconciliation with patience and emotional balance ✔️ The critical mistake most people make when trying to win back a dismissive avoidant If you've ever asked yourself, "Can this relationship be saved?" , this episode will help you understand dismissive avoidant needs and take the right steps—without sacrificing your own self-worth . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson ,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshiprecovery #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Meet Your Own Needs for Love, Romance & Emotional Connection 28:59

för 20 dagar sedan28:59

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How do you fulfill your emotional needs without relying on others? Many of us seek love, romance, and emotional connection from external sources, but true fulfillment comes from within. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais explores how to meet your own emotional needs , so you can build healthier relationships, reduce dependency, and create lasting fulfillment in your life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The role of subconscious needs in shaping our emotions and behaviors ✔️ Why self-connection is the key to attracting healthy relationships ✔️ How to meet your needs for love and connection internally ✔️ The 6 core human needs and how they impact your fulfillment ✔️ Why understanding your needs prevents emotional burnout and relationship struggles ✔️ Practical strategies to feel emotionally fulfilled, even when single If you’ve ever felt lonely, emotionally unfulfilled, or overly dependent on relationships , this episode will help you reclaim your power and build deep self-connection . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson ,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #selflove #emotionalfulfillment #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #selfworth Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Do Narcissists Target Anxious Attachment Styles? 8 Signs to Watch For 13:42

för 22 dagar sedan13:42

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are anxious attachment styles more likely to attract narcissists? Many people with anxious attachment find themselves in toxic relationships, wondering if narcissists actively seek them out —and why. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down 8 key traits of anxious attachment that may make them vulnerable to narcissistic relationships and, more importantly, how to break free from these patterns and protect yourself . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why people-pleasing makes anxious attachers more vulnerable to manipulation ✔️ How over-empathizing with others while neglecting yourself leads to unhealthy dynamics ✔️ The dangers of self-abandoning your boundaries to maintain connection ✔️ Why anxious attachers filter out red flags and rationalize toxic behavior ✔️ How to rebuild self-worth, set healthy boundaries, and break free from toxic cycles ✔️ The best healing strategies to shift from anxious to secure attachment If you've ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners?” , this episode will give you clarity and actionable steps to build healthier relationships . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson ,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #narcissisticabuse #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #toxicrelationships #selfworth Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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6 Ways to Rekindle the Spark with a Fearful Avoidant Partner 49:00

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Feeling disconnected from your fearful avoidant partner? Whether your relationship has lost its spark or you’re trying to rebuild after a breakup, understanding what a fearful avoidant needs to feel safe and connected is key. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais and co-host Mike DiZio share six powerful strategies to strengthen emotional intimacy and restore trust with a fearful avoidant partner. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 4 C’s of Trust and why they matter for fearful avoidants ✔️ Why open and transparent conversations are crucial for reconnection ✔️ How to introduce novelty back into the relationship to reignite attraction ✔️ Why personal growth together fosters deeper emotional safety ✔️ How depth in conversations makes a fearful avoidant feel truly seen ✔️ The importance of clearing the resentment tank to avoid emotional shutdown If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I reconnect with my fearful avoidant partner?” , this episode will help you understand their emotional needs and build a secure, fulfilling relationship . Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:20 - 1 — Having Open and Transparent Conversations 03:58 - 4 C’s of Trust 10:23 - 2 — Introduce Novelty Back Into the Relationship 17:03 - 7-Day Free Trial 17:53 - 3 — Personal Growth 24:27 - 4 — Depth and Depth of Conversations 30:18 - Rocket Money 32:10 - 5 — Reintroduce Fun Into the Relationship 33:42 - 6 — Small Verbal Affirmations 40:13 - 7 — Clearing the Resentment Tank 44:23 - Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson ,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshipreconnection #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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