A Fatal Love Triangle: The Case of Pamela Bulik

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In 1984, Pamela Bulik lived in Green Bay, WI with her husband Bob and their two children. Pam was an avid runner, a popular schoolteacher, and by April, Pam had been training months with her best friend Lynda Drews for the upcoming local marathon. Pam was excited for the race: she had lost weight, gained speed, and made new personal records on her times. Tragically, however, on the morning of April 7th, Pam had missed the marathon and is soon found dead in her home. Investigators were quick to the scene and identified that there were only three options for Pam’s death: accidental, suicide or murder. The details surrounding the crime scene were puzzling and there seemed to be more nefarious underpinnings to Pam's death than her husband's claims of an accidental death. The small community is quickly swept into a frenzy by Pam's death, suspicions of suicide that rang false, and Bob Bulik's alleged affair with a fellow educator. Hang out with us as we dig into this case (detailed in Lynda Drew’s book, Run at Destruction: A True Fatal Love Triangle) as we explore secret affairs, deception, and infidelity that took place in the most unexpected community.

Resources:

About Author Lynda Drews: - Run At Destruction (lyndadrews.com)

Lynda’s Book: Run At Destruction: A True Fatal Love Triangle

Dr. Kevin Skinner: https://www.drkevinskinner.com/about

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References:

Drews, Lynda (2009, Aug 1). Run at Destruction: A True Fatal Love Triangle

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