214: Zoë Bossiere - How do we find our way in a world of stark binaries?

The Long Distance Love Bombs Podcast

Zoë Bossiere (they/she) is a writer from Tucson, Arizona. They are the managing editor of Brevity: A Journal of Concise Literary Nonfiction. as well as the co-editor of two anthologies: ⁠The Best of Brevity⁠ (Rose Metal Press, 2020) and ⁠The Lyric Essay as Resistance: Truth from the Margins⁠ (Wayne State UP, 2023). Bossiere's debut, ⁠Cactus Country: A Boyhood Memoir⁠ (Abrams Books, 2024), chronicles their experiences growing up as a trans boy in a Tucson, Arizona trailer park.

The conversation delves into their childhood, gender exploration, and the challenges of pregnancy as a non-binary individual. Zoë's skepticism and resilience in navigating societal norms and healthcare experiences are highlighted. We also discuss the significance of embracing one's past and identity, the impact of their book on readers, the challenges faced by trans individuals, and the importance of storytelling and representation. Zoë also addresses the issue of book bans and the value of diverse literature in libraries.

Keywords: gender identity, parenthood, pregnancy, non-binary, skepticism, societal norms, healthcare experiences, identity, gender, trans, storytelling, representation, book bans, diversity, libraries

Takeaways:

• Zoë's journey of gender exploration and identity is a deeply personal and evolving experience.
• The challenges of pregnancy as a non-binary individual highlight the need for inclusive and supportive healthcare practices.
• Skepticism and resilience play a significant role in navigating societal norms embracing one's past and identity is essential for self-acceptance and confidence.
• The challenges trans individuals face, including the impact of legislative actions and the importance of representation, are significant.
• Storytelling and diverse literature are crucial in providing visibility and understanding for marginalized communities.
• The issue of book bans in libraries highlights the need for access to diverse literature and the impact of censorship on readers.

Chapters

02:57 - Exploring Gender Fluidity and Parenthood

05:59 - The Impact of Parenthood on Personal Identity

08:55 - Summary of Zoë's Memoir: Cactus Country

13:03 - Navigating Puberty and Identity Exploration

35:48 - Embracing Identity and Past Experiences

53:25 - The Value of Diverse Literature in Libraries⁠⁠⁠

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