#4 - Traver Boehm: The UNcivilized Man, Killing the Nice Guy

The Human Experience

Searching for deeper fulfillment in life and a sense of purpose? Are you ready to stop being the classic nice guy and step into the full power of your manhood? In this enlightening conversation with Traver, he breaks down why so many men today are miserable, and through becoming UNcivilized in our modern world, we can reclaim our powerful, thriving selves.
In today's world, men are lost and trying to navigate a changing world with no roadmap. Growing up, most men adapt by falling into one of two categories. We become the classic nice guy, the one who has no backbone and tries to get everyone to like them, or the Marlboro man, the lone wolf who has shut down his heart and finds strength in doing life solo.
Stick around to hear why neither the nice guy nor the Marlboro man are working, and the necessity of becoming an integrated man.
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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
3:15 Falling Apart and Finding Alignment
7:48 Choosing the Path of Transformation
15:27 The Journey of Self-Discovery
23:10 Love and the Whispers of the Heart
30:21 The Marlboro Man and the Nice Guy
37:50 Understanding the Marlboro Man and the Nice Guy
45:46 The Fear of Rejection and Taking Risks
53:58 Being Dangerous vs Being a Danger
01:01:34 Needy Behavior in Relationships
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Traver Boehm is the author of the books "Today I Rise" and "Man UNcivilized". He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.
Travers website: manuncivilized.com
Traver on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/
Travers Book: https://www.amazon.com/Man-UNcivilized-hate-youll-book-ebook/dp/B088KTC56G/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1K8T2J5292E4O&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.FIJvn2yNzGbxq4JSe4XaAgTGZ2R3E2ZLD8pTIJmtuJEM1vaBWBoEIPv-e11KLwTKUwIhHoBdMgThApSgirVg2VgaoIpZHBLPqVwnJzIGWP8.daW2H3eNsO9vEvQOy1QUYLmZ_wPaXKfhEtdU1YTXyro&dib_tag=se&keywords=traver+boehm&qid=1721998793&sprefix=traver+boehm%2Caps%2C100&sr=8-1
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1. Intro (00:00:00)

2. Falling Apart & Finding Alignment (00:03:15)

3. Choosing the Path of Transformation (00:07:48)

4. The Journey of Self Discovery (00:15:27)

5. Love & the Whispers of the Heart (00:23:10)

6. The Marlboro Man & the Nice Guy (00:30:21)

7. Understanding the Marlboro Man and the Nice Guy (00:37:50)

8. The Fear of Rejection and Taking Risks (00:45:46)

9. Being Dangerous vs Being a Danger (00:53:58)

10. Needy Behavior in Relationships (01:01:34)