30. Reverse Sexism: When Inclusion Feels Exclusive with Yichen Hao

We Don't Deserve Men

In the first episode of 2025, host Kayla Yoder engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Yichen, a sociologist originally from China. They delve into the topic of reverse sexism, examining how gender dynamics have evolved and how men are now experiencing sexism in today's cultural climate. Yichen shares personal stories illustrating hard and soft sexism and discusses the silent struggles men face with discrimination. The conversation highlights the challenges both genders are confronting and emphasizes the need for mutual respect and collaboration to overcome adversarial relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:50 Guest Introduction: Yichen's Background 02:35 Exploring Reverse Sexism 05:11 Hard and Soft Sexism: Definitions and Examples 07:42 Personal Experiences with Hard Sexism 18:02 Personal Experiences with Soft Sexism 20:53 Generational Perspectives on Gender Dynamics 25:20 The Complexity of Gender-Based Discrimination 37:26 Understanding Bias and Discrimination 37:55 Men's Struggles and Societal Reactions 38:39 The Need for Safe Spaces for Men 40:28 Hypocrisy in Advocacy for Inclusion 41:21 Personal Reflections on Gender Roles 44:49 Challenges in Professional Environments 49:20 Biological and Societal Differences 55:58 Cultural Comparisons: US vs. Canada 01:00:43 The Harm of Sexism and Reverse Sexism 01:08:29 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: [e-mail] IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/