Breaking Free from "Poor Dad" Thinking: How I Changed My Money Mindset and Built a Richer Life

The Self Aware Leader with Jason Rigby

Ever felt like you're stuck, like success is just out of reach? Robert Kiyosaki's "Rich Dad Poor Dad" hit me hard with this truth: our mindset is everything. Kiyosaki contrasts his "rich dad" (his mentor) and his "poor dad" (his own father), showing how different views on money and success can make or break us.

I've struggled with this myself. Growing up, most of the people around me had that "poor dad" mindset. They were good people, hard workers, but they saw money as something you just earned at a job, not something you could grow.

I started noticing how their fear of risk and their focus on just getting by was rubbing off on me. It was like a subtle pull, holding me back from even dreaming bigger.

But reading "Rich Dad Poor Dad" was a wake-up call. It made me realize I needed to shake things up if I wanted a different life.

Learning to Think Like a "Rich Dad"

I started seeking out people who were already successful, people who thought like Kiyosaki's "rich dad." I read books on finance, took courses, and most importantly, surrounded myself with mentors who could guide me.

It wasn't easy. Unlearning old habits and beliefs is tough. I had to constantly challenge myself to step outside my comfort zone, to take calculated risks, and to see money as an opportunity, not just a paycheck.

But little by little, my mindset started shifting. I began to see possibilities I hadn't seen before. I started making bolder decisions, investing in myself and my ideas.

The Challenge of Breaking Away

The hardest part, though, was distancing myself from the "poor dad" influences in my life. I didn't want to lose my friends and family, but I knew I couldn't let their limiting beliefs hold me back.

I had to find a balance. I still care about them, but I've also made a conscious effort to spend more time with people who are on the same path as me.

My Journey Continues

I'm not where I want to be yet, but I'm miles ahead of where I would be if I had stayed stuck in that old mindset. I'm building businesses, investing in assets, and creating a life I'm truly excited about.

If you're feeling trapped by a "poor dad" mentality, know this: you can change. It's not easy, but it's absolutely possible. Seek out mentors, educate yourself, challenge your limiting beliefs, and most importantly, take action.

Your future self will thank you.

Jason