The Bitter Pill...

My Inner Torch

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I often feel frustrated with those of us who romanticize relationships with individuals exhibiting cluster B personality traits, especially during and after a divorce. I remember a specific instance where someone mourned a “best friend” they believed to be a covert narcissist. I found their feelings misguided because these individuals were never true friends. It’s so important to recognize the facade presented by these personalities.

Reflecting on my own experience, I can assert that my spouse lacked genuine care for me. I believe that many people involved with cluster B personalities often miss out on the benefits of the relationship itself rather than missing the partner. These individuals tend to see others as possessions rather than people deserving of love.

I’ve witnessed the emotional struggles, low self-esteem, manipulation, and gaslighting that are common in these toxic dynamics. I urge anyone in a similar situation to confront the painful reality of their relationships. Self-awareness and healing are essential, and we need to stop romanticizing past connections. Ultimately, I stress that true friendship cannot coexist with harmful behaviors, and accepting this truth is crucial for moving forward.

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