Parody Of Power Exchange

Diane Callaway

There are two sides to BDSM play that which is seen online in fantasy and the one practiced by those that live it. The fantasy world of pornography would have the viewer believe that the dominant is the person in control of all play. The fantasy is far from what is practiced by those that live the lifestyle every day. One of the cornerstones of BDSM play is communication. In a stable relationship with a submissive and a dominant discussion of sessions and rules is done regularly. BDSM teaches that all interactions should be discussed before the play and then again after.

Aftercare is needed to protect the psychological mindset of the submissive. It is a time set aside to cuddle and revisit the events of playtime. The set time gives the dominant feedback on the experience from the submissive's perspective. All humans need intimate interaction to stay emotionally healthy. Modern relationships often neglect the fundamental need of those involved. BDSM makes it part of the rules of play.

While the dominant decides on how a play session will proceed, the rules are always set by the submissive. A relationship fails if communication is not a central part. The set rules taught by BDSM do a few things they make dialogue a ritual. In the modern world, people tend to dismiss anything ritualistic. The issue with the contemporary view of the rush presents an accessible path of ignoring the housekeeping for the entertainment. After awhile of forgetting the necessity loses its importance until they do not happen. We spend a lot of time talking to people but never communicating. Relationships crumble, and people feel isolated while in the company that once brought great joy.

Another point of the BDSM ritual is controlling the treatment of a submissive. Alpha personalities will blow over the top of a soft submissive one. The creation of a safe space dedicated to the honest discussion is necessary.

Pornography, the depiction of submission to dominant is often skewed. Movie producers show the side they want to sell; this is not what a relationship should ever be. For entertainment purposes, it is not necessary to portray the reality of any relationship. The problem begins when people use these fictions to base their first relationships.

Submissives, either female or male, are depicted as throwaway people. There are a few groups that attempt to show a small slice of real life.

There are many types of relationships they are neither right nor wrong if they work for the people involved. BDSM relationships are no better or worse than any other. The success of the couple is based on the work they both put into being together. The difference is BDSM attempts through rituals to put the power into the submissive. Domination is a gift given from one person to another.

Hi, thank you for listening. I am an American who speaks and writes in fluent American English. I have several degrees in English Composition, Political Science, and Philosophy. I am a freelance author who is specializing in erotica but writes across many genres. If you want to know more about the specific subject, please reach out to me at my email. I am a self-published with several novels in the erotica genre but have several others in the process. For editing, I utilize several methods and offer that service. I do create audios. If you have a project, please reach out to me.

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