Calling all alternative adults and other like-minded humans! Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with ...
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Ep 170. Communicating Wants, Needs & Desires
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Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle partner? Tune in for tips and thought starters on how to effectively follow your journey to living your most authentic self. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Ev…
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Ep 168. You Asked, I answered: Basic Swinger Questions
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The community thoughts and questions have been thriving lately. Today's listen includes pointers on the following three submitted thoughts: 1. I'm a married man who wants to swing, but my wife wants no part of it. What do I do? 2. What do you do if you see a co-worker at an event? 3. What kind of information would you share with someone attending a…
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Ep 167. My Partner and I Have Different Play Styles
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Do you and your partner have different play styles and aren't sure how to navigate it? Tune in as a behind the scenes listener to my LIVE session on SDC back in December of 2023. You'll pickup on pointers and though starters to navigate this conversation with your partner. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbender…
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In this episode, Gina, the beautiful mind behind Little Miss Nasty shares the journey into building this global, iconic brand. A snip it from their website: Little Miss Nasty delivers an overwhelmingly powerful experience that inspires and defies genre because Little Miss Nasty IS the genre. You have permission to be your Nasty, authentic self! To …
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Spencer and I spend the morning in the hot tub recapping the activities for July. We share our thoughts on hosting our first swingers party 4th of July weekend on Long Island. We talk about my birthday bash in Rhode Island and some other fun adventures and parties. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog Join SDC: https://www…
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Coming out of my birthday bash, it was really important for us to share the unacceptable behavior that transpired at the event. This is a triggering episode so please be aware. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’…
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Ep 163. Things To Consider When Becoming A Swinger
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Are you looking into the swingers lifestyle but not sure the kinds of conversations to have? Listen to this podcast episode. It will help guide you. It will provide topics and ideas on how to navigate the beginning stages of an exiting journey of self discovery. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com…
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Ep 162. Are You Into Group Play?
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In this episode, Jim and I talk through so much when it comes to group play in the swingers world. There are so many possibilities and the things to be aware of. I think this conversation is a good starter for those interested in exploring this play style. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop …
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We're going international with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. I really enjoyed learning about Cate's background that lead to opening her events company. It keeps her busy by traveling and hosting all over the world. She shares the difficulties of launching right as the COVID-19 pandemic hit and all of her successes following. Join SDC: https://www.…
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Another sassy hot tub conversation between myself and Spencer after returning from an amazing New Hampshire trip that took an unexpected turn. Tune for all the laughter then head over to my blog to see some of the photos and additional thoughts. RSVP to Mizzy's Birthday Bash : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Join SDC: https://…
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Ep 159. Shootin' the Swinger Ish - Epsiode 3
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Jim and I really have no boundaries. In this episode we talk morning routines, travel discrepancies, work and overall life since seeing each other at Naughty in Neon in June. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com or if you'd like more clarify, reach out! For behind the scenes event photos and thought…
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Ep 158. Sister Wives & Reality TV Part 2 of 2
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We begin this episode learning about how Sara navigating the bold question of becoming exclusive and pregnant. Sara explains her point of view about the show entirely and the potential after math that it could impact her day to day life. patreon.com/Mizzybender RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk abou…
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Ep 157. Sister Wives & Reality TV Part 1 of 2
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In part one Sara shares her journey around her sexuality which ultimately lead her to exploring the swingers lifestyle. An opportunity presented itself to be part of the reality tv show Seeking Sister Wives on TLC. Let's dive into the fascinating journey of the lifestyle on reality tv! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : w…
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Ep 156. Ep. Morning Hot Tub Conversation
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Spencer and I start the morning bantering in the hot tub. We share all the shenanigans that have been going on throughout the month of June. I dive into wanting to explore hot wife scenarios and more. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to t…
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In this fly on the wall type of recording, join us for breakfast as we have normal, casual conversation. This was recorded during one of our amazing summer weekends as we hang under the gazebo as the sun shines and the birds chirp. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love t…
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Ep 154. SDC Behind the Scenes Swingers Q&A
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I hosted a LIVE Q&A on SDC.com, the largest international swingers community. Listen in as I answer questions and thoughts of the participants. No question is off limits. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is h…
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Ep 153. Summer Shenanigans: Sexy in the Sun
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I love summer shenanigans which happen to be naked shenanigans in the sun! What an incredible weekend full of laughs, sexiness, good friends and a whole lot of memories. I share my thoughts around our two single men, the communication between them both and the sexy play time we had. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.…
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Ep 152. Shootin' the Swinger Ish - Part 2 of 2
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Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie. In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'…
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Ep. 151. Shootin' the Swinger Ish Part 1 of 2
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Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie. In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'…
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Ep. 150. Getting Noticed in the Lifestyle
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Are you having trouble getting noticed in the swingers lifestyle? Are you looking for some tips on how to stand out? Listen to this episode that was built by community discussion. Most of it sounds like a no brainer, but sometimes we need the basic how to guide to get us to where we want to be. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our E…
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Ep. 149. Swingers Travel Gone Wacky - Part 2 of 2
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Part 2 of our travel disaster with extra bonus footage of Spencer's phone calls while in the tow truck trying to figure out how to get us home. It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things ev…
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Ep 148. Swingers Travel Gone Wacky - Part 1 of 2
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It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com…
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Ep 147. The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 2
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Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out a…
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Ep 146. The One and Only Kiley - Sexyswingerchic Part 1
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The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.se…
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Ep 145. Single to Married - Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 2
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Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. MizzyBender@outlook.c…
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Ep 144. Single to Married : Jim's Lifestyle Journey Part 1
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Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show. You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the…
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Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to …
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Ep 142. Navigating the First Date in an Adult Lifestyle
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Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners. There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for S…
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Ep 141. Strictly Anonymous with Kathy
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Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times. She is such a…
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Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry. They take us on their journey, sharing who introduce…
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Ep 139. Winterland Recap with Spencer
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Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for …
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Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of the thoughts and feelings that lead to the closing of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at th…
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Ep 137. The Tale of Two Single Men
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A previously posted podcast: The tale of two single men coming out of a recent event. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the …
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Ep 136. Introducing a New Play Partner
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Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t l…
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Ep 135. Body Insecurities - Should I share them?
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Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everyth…
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Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to…
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Ep 133. How Do I Get My Wife to Join this Lifestyle
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Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "My wife and I are very new to LS. We’ve been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doin…
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Ep 132. Event Thoughts - Specifically Single Gentlemen
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Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard. Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www…
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Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league." We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background…
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Mizzy Bender shares her personal experience in regards to boundaries and really understanding the right time to communicate them. Through this Facebook live show, Mizzy spills all the details! Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doe…
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Happy Thanksgiving thoughts from Mizzy Bender. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life h…
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Ep 128. Communicating Relationship Dynamics
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Mizzy Bender goes live on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question: "I am interested in finding out how one navigates themselves in the lifestyle, when the dynamic of their relationships changes but they still want to be in the lifestyle. I am a "single bi cis gender female." When going to LS parties/events, there are times wh…
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Ep 127. A Journey of Swinging, Plant Based Medicine and More!
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Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades. Listen in as Mi…
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Ep 126. A Swingers Journey -Episode 4
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Welcome to Octobers recap with Mr. Mindbender. Its always a fun episode full of giggles when talking with him! I love hearing his thoughts on life and our adventures overall. This episode is all of that and more. Listen in as we travel back from Boo, A Mindbender Production, recording in the car. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w…
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Ep 125. Talking Adult Profiles and More with Ash
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Mizzy Bender interviews Ash, an amazing female entrepreneur in the swingers world. The first part of this episode is learning all about Ash and her journey. The second half is discussing what kind of information you should include within your swingers profiles. Its a fun and sassy listen! To learn more about Ash:Instagram: Ash_lovespineapplesTIKTOK…
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Ep 124. Things to Keep in Mind While Swinging
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Today's episode was recorded live in The Paradise Club's Facebook group. You'll hear Mizzy Bender discussing the things you should know and be aware of when entering the swingers/alternative lifestyle. These are general rules that may seem obvious, but unfortunately they are not. The discussion is based off community submitted entries, so that mean…
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Ep 123. I’m a Poly but My Husband is Not
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On this weeks episode, Mizzy Bender interviews Melissa who is married and poly. The big discussion point is that Melissa's husband is not a participant in her alternative lifestyle. Listen in to understand the composition of the relationship and how Melissa and her husband navigate their lifestyle. We discuss the challenges and mindsets of potentia…
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Ep 122. A Swingers Journey - Episode 3
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Listen in with Mizzy Bender as her swingers journey continues. In this solo episode Mizzy shares the latest and greatest in her swinging world. There's been the ups and downs of traveling, weekend adventures, a new playmate and so much more. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=clJoin SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907RSVP for …
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Ep 121. Swingers Approaching Couples That are Out of Their League
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Today Mizzy Bender provides her swingers point of view on a community submitted question on approaching couples. "My question is how do you talk to couples when the other couple is maybe consider better looking then the other couple but you all share a similar interests?" This was a live Facebook show broadcasted in The Paradise Club group for one …
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Ep 120. Touch Base with Jack Polo, Triple X Playground
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Its been almost a whole year since Mizzy and Jack, from Triple X Playground, chatted. Listen in as he shares what's been going on lately. Between Exxxotica, ASN Awards, Podcasting, Branding and so much more. The journey is always a bumpy one, so as always, you get the raw insight to our lives and thoughts. Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, T…
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