Lately we've been perplexed by this situation we're all in now with body image. It's like we've gone too far with the whole "every body is beautiful" thing. To the point where we can't even talk about it. The only acceptable thing to say is, "Oh you're beautiful! Love yourself! You look amazing!" First of all: why are we only focused on the physica…

So we did this thing where we only ate fruits and vegetables and a small amount of nuts for 28 days. Since we're privileged white people, it's easy for us to say this is the hardest thing we've ever done. Seriously. The shit was hard. But feeling like shit was getting really old. We are young. Our diet was the picture of perfection: raw dairy, gras…

Over the past few months we have received a number of new questions about polyamory from our friends and listeners. We've also been dipping our toes into the world of Tinder (a dating app) and discuss why we decided not to go on first dates alone anymore. All this has combined to make for a fun new podcast where we go into more detail about the day…

In today's episode, we discuss: Is monogamy encoded in our DNA? The concept of “I'm never gonna love again.” Why, when passion fades, do we think the relationship is over or doomed? Is despair a byproduct of monogamy? Getting older and thinking, “Shit, I don't wanna die alone.” Why we wanna please our parents so much Why we project our own fears on…

Katie is always asking me random questions about how things work, and I'm always explaining them. To which she then responds, "How the hell do you know all this random stuff?" I don't know. I read a lot, I went to school, I have a degree, I just pick stuff up here and there. Basically in the end, I know a little bit about a lot of things. A few day…

In this podcast we sort of follow up right were we left off with the last one. Remember the story about the dick pics and the dirty socks? Well this time we got the guy on the line with us, live from London to talk about all this and more. It turned out to be a lively discussion about: how sex culture is so vastly different between our two countrie…

Today we started a conversation about fantasies, and about 90 seconds in we were like "we should be recording this as a podcast right now, forget about making an outline, lets just hit record and go." So we did, and here it is. In the end it was a fun conversation about some flirtations we've been having recently with others, the difference between…

In this episode we go over our strategies for getting to Europe, and getting around once we're there. This episode is also a companion piece to the book we've recently published called The Quick & Dirty Guide To Cheap European Travel. In it we talk about long-term planning, short-term planning, what to pack, how to best utilize the different modes …

In this podcast we explore the question I'm sure will resonate with every couple who's currently in or has been in a long term relationship: Kris and I are a very loving, connected, conscious couple with a unique relationship. We generally don't relate to the cliche issues common in mainstream monogamous relationships. Why Aren't We Having Sex Anym…

People often ask, “You host strangers? In your home? Do you lock up your valuables??” My response is always, “Yes. Yes. And of course not!” There are lots of misconceptions and fear based reactions to hosting travelers, and nearly everyone asks the same questions. If you're new to the concept of hosting travelers, check out my blog series below. An…

Episode Recap: What is Polyamory? What are other forms on non-monogamy? Would polyamory work for me? What does a consensual polyamorous relationship look like? Common misconceptions about non-monogamous relationships Episode Resources: David Deida Arianne Cohen Christopher Ryan BodyTalk More Than Two Website Buy on Amazon Buy on Amazon Buy on Amazo…