Hosts Rich and DeAnna Millentree help Christian couples remove obstacles keeping them stuck in their marriage. You deserve to be married to your best friend! Using their marriage as examples of what to do and what not to do, they help couples create new intimacy and build an exciting friendship with their spouse. You and your spouse are sure to grow in your relationship and connect at a much deeper level.
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238. Ask the Expert: Important Marriage Questions Answered (with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW)
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This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna sit down with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW, to tackle some of the most pressing and challenging questions couples face. In this episode, Cindy shares her expert insights on topics like how to get help when your spouse is resistant, rebuilding trust, breaking the cycle of emotional shutdowns, and …
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On this week’s episode of our the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is flipping the script and interviewing Rich about our brand new product, Soulmates. It’s designed especially for Christian couples, featuring interactive stories and guided conversations to help you grow closer and deepen your spiritual intimacy. DeAnna asks all the juicy questi…
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235. Together We Thrive: The Art of Spousal Support
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Welcome to this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast with Rich and DeAnna! Today, we explore the profound impact of uplifting your spouse. Rich shares his journey from ignoring DeAnna’s pleas for help to taking responsibility for household chores and demonstrating true, lasting change. Discover the difference between temporary modifica…
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We're jumping into the love language of physical touch. From holding hands and sharing hugs to intimate gestures like kissing and back rubs, we’ll uncover the powerful impact of physical touch in marriage. We’ll discuss the importance of learning how your spouse wants to be touched. Too often, we turn to books, other couples, or general advice, neg…
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Today, we’re diving into the importance of creating a healthier version of yourself. A happy marriage thrives when both individuals are committed to their personal growth and well-being. DeAnna shares how one of her own growth journeys has brought us closer together and positively impacted our marriage. **REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP**…
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232. Misunderstood: She Said, He Said
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Join as we tackle the inevitable misunderstandings that arise in marriage. Discover how these moments can affect your feelings and learn strategies to navigate them without trying to convince your spouse that your perspective is the only perspective. We’ll share the importance of acknowledging and reflecting on each other’s viewpoints, even when yo…
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Dive into the heart of what makes each of us unique and how to truly love and appreciate those differences in your spouse! Today, Rich and DeAnna are sharing insights on loving your spouse in a way that makes them feel cherished, quick and fun ways to connect and build intimacy through new experiences, travel, and even a bit of friendly competition…
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Today, Rich and DeAnna are having fun and answering questions a marriage counselor would ask to determine if their marriage is savable. The reality is we believe all marriages are savable if you do them God's way. As Jimmy Evans would say, you have a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. And to that, we say, "Amen!" Growing In Marriage Gro…
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229. Does Your Spouse Have Your Back?
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Ever wonder what it truly means to have your spouse's back, in the good times and especially the bad? In this heartwarming episode, Rich and DeAnna dive into the art of being there for your spouse. We'll explore how these actions not only deepen your bond but also honor God's design for marriage. Tune in as we unpack practical tips, share inspiring…
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228. Do You Really Want to Know Your Spouse?
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Hello, Jill Zimmerman from Pennsylvania! 👋🏻👋🏾 We've got a cool story to share about you today! We've been diving into a skill that can really change the game in your marriage: empathy. It's not always easy, but mastering it can make a huge difference. Research shows that couples who get good at empathy have over 30% better conflict resolution and r…
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227. Healing Intimacy (with Drew Boa): Overcoming Unwanted Sexual Behaviors for a Thriving Marriage
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Today's episode is a real eye-opener as we delve into the often-taboo topic of overcoming unwanted sexual behaviors (e.g., porn) and understanding the complexities of sexual fantasies within marriage. We're joined by a remarkable guest, Drew Boa from Husband Material, who brings a fresh perspective to the table. Drew's journey from struggling with …
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Introducing the Happily Married Workshop. Rich and DeAnna spill the beans on their new in-person event. If you are local to the Central Valley of California: Bay Area, Sacramento, Fresno, Foothills then you don't want to miss this fun one-day workshop that will help you achieve the kind of relationship others will be asking, "How do they do it." Si…
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225. Transforming Criticism Into Compassion in Marriage
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Today Rich and DeAnna are talking about a topic that affects every marriage, but often lurks in the shadows of the relationship. This darkness leaves a silent but very profound impact on both spouses—it’s criticism! So, grab a cup of coffee, find a comfortable space, and listen to us engage in a conversation that could breathe new life into your re…
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Rich and DeAnna finally deliver a "short" episode. In this podcast, DeAnna's back and she is sharing how she celebrated her 50th birthday and created a memory we will NEVER forget. 😂 Tune into this fun episode that's sure to make you smile and gasp all within 24 minutes. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first ab…
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223. Start Caregiving and Step Into Intimacy
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Today, Rich is teaming up with Shannon McKiernan as she fills in for DeAnna. DeAnna had an unexpected event take place that sidelined her for this episode. We want you to step into intimacy in your marriage. One of the ways to do that is through caregiving. Listen as Rich and Shannon discuss why careging is necessary in your marriage and what it lo…
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222. Stop Taking Care of Your Spouse
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To some degree, we all love being taken care of at times, especially when the care is coming from our spouse. Today, Rich and DeAnna want you to stop taking care of your spouse in exchange for something better. Listen as they discuss why caretaking is detremental to your marriage and what you should do instead. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on …
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Replay: How Do You Handle Rejection?
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Rich and DeAnna are replaying a popular episode from two years ago. Settle in and listen again to Rich and DeAnna share how you can handle rejection from your spouse and in your marriage. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. S…
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221. Inside Our Marriage: What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors
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Rich and DeAnna are spilling the beans on what happens behind closed doors in their marriage. Enjoy this fun, light-hearted episode that sure to make you smile. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie …
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220. Cozy Moments and Cheer: Embracing Holiday Warmth
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Today, Rich and DeAnna aim to equip couples with practical strategies and guidance to navigate the holiday season more smoothly, reducing stress and overwhelm. It's the perfect opportunity to fostering emotional closeness, rediscover intimacy, and create meaningful moments together. Learn to embrace and relish the holiday moments as a team, fosteri…
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219. 5 Moves from Amateur to Pro Communication
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Ever felt like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're saying the same things? This podcast episode is the ultimate playbook for upgrading your relationship communication skills. Rich and DeAnna are addressing five powerful moves to help you ace those heart-to-heart talks. From genuinely tuning in and understanding y…
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218. Love Without Hurt: Ditching Punishment in Marriage
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Join us as we chat about something vital for your marriage: ditching the whole punishment thing in your relationship. We're all about tossing out the idea of giving your spouse the cold shoulder or dealing out penalties. Instead, let's dive into how to turn to your partner with love, even in tough times. Rich and DeAnna are sharing down-to-earth ad…
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Hey guys! We miss you. We wanted to pop in and update you on two things, really quick. Purchase Growing In Marriage Date Night Tickets Show Links Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in our Couples Bible Study Purchase our Couples …
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217. Introducing the Confident Husband Mastermind
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Rich and DeAnna have some exciting news for all you husbands (and wives) out there. Today marks the launch of something that's going to revolutionize your marriage – it's called the Confident Husband Mastermind, and trust us, you don't want to miss out on this. We're talking about a game-changing resource tailor-made for husbands, designed to super…
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216. Be the Friend You Wish You Had
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Today, Rich and DeAnna explore the significance of being a supportive friend who stands by your side through life's ups and downs. We share personal stories about the impact of such friendships, drawing inspiration from Jesus as the ultimate example. Plus, we delve into how these friendships can strengthen marriages. Join us for a heartwarming conv…
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215. Heartfelt Conversations: Navigating Emotions In Marriage
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Today, Rich and DeAnna are diving into your emotions. Join us as we unpack why it's essential to recognize and share our feelings in a healthy way within our marriages. Get ready for some real talk on self-awareness, communication that rocks, and making your connection even stronger. We'll have a look at God's Word to show us how emotional intellig…
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214. Passport to Passion: Unveiling the Magic of Romantic Getaways for Couples
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We've got a fun episode for you today. Kick back and relax as we spill the beans on why planning and going on those dreamy romantic vacations can seriously add excitement to your love life. From rekindling the spark to building unbreakable bonds, we're talking about ten benefits this will have in your marriage. So, let's dive into the world of roma…
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213. Secrets and White Lies: Navigating Trust and Honesty in Relationships
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Join Rich and DeAnna in this eye-opening podcast episode as they dive headfirst into the world of white lies, trust issues, and the tangled web of emotions that come with them. 🕵️♂️🔍 Ever caught yourself telling a harmless white lie to your partner? Well, we're getting real about how those seemingly innocent fibs can snowball into something way bi…
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212. Training Your Marriage for Unmatched Connection
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Hey guys, we're back with another episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast! This time, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of 'Training Your Marriage for Unmatched Connection.' Get ready for some real talk, personal stories, and a bunch of laughs as we spill the beans on how to amp up the love, deepen the talks, and keep that spark alive in your m…
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Some of the routines you have in your marriage are causing problems in your relationship and you don't even know it (or maybe you absolutely knonw it). It's time to do something different with those routines. Stop arguing over silly stuff, or holding on to low-key resentment all because of a routine that has gotten out of hand. It's time to kick fr…
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210. Do You Allow Your Spouse to Make Mistakes?
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DeAnna has some new visitors she has been keeping an eye one and Rich is excited about an upcoming holiday. Some fun giggles to start the show for sure. Have you ever made a mistake and as soon as you do your spouse is right there letting you know how bad you failed? Do you feel like you can't make a mistake without your partner rubbing it in your …
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209. When Your Spouse Refuses to Accept Your Apology
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Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about what to do when your spouse refuses to accept your apology. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Purchase our Couples Bible Study: https://gr…
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There are some lessons we have learned in our coaching office that make us tremble before the Lord and so grateful for His grace. We are so blessed to walk side-by-side with the couples who come into our practice. Listen this week as DeAnna and I share some of our favorite lessons we have learned in our office. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the …
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Join Rich and DeAnna as they have a casual conversation about how they grow and change and what growth and change can look like in your life. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-fac…
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Has the topic of opposite-sex friendships come up in your marriage? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about this dynamic and how to navigate the subject. There is not a one-size-fits-all approach or answer, but there are some things you need to be aware. Join us for a fun discussion on opposite-sex friendships in marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Register to atten…
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Rich and DeAnna attended a marriage conference in Seattle, Washington, about five years ago. Rich and DeAnna were introduced to the Four Horsemen at that conference. What they learned was life-changing, and they think it will also be for you and your marriage. Listen along as they discuss the Four Horsemen and how you can limit their presence in yo…
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Every marriage gets stuck. But did you know the average couple waits six years before seeking help for their problems? Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss why couples shouldn't wait to get the help they need. They will also share the benefits of seeking help and where to start if you need help now. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our …
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Every marriage needs time. The cool thing about time is every marriage gets the same amount of it. No marriage is at a disadvantage. So, why are our marriages time starved? We are busier than ever and our marriage and spouse suffer. Today we are going talk about how you can get back more of your time and create a deeper connection with your spouse …
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202. 4 Ways to Change Your Attitude
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Attitude is everything! The wrong attitude will keep you stuck, and the right attitude has the potential to shift everything. Today, Rich and DeAnna will share with you why your attitude can be so negative and what you can do to change it. When you change your attitude, you change your marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit ou…
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201. Impromptu Conversation for Wives
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Today, DeAnna is in the studio with a great friend, Shannon McKiernan, recording her first podcast all alone and having an impromptu conversation for wives. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Listen in as they talk about what submission looks like and why it's so important. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Fa…
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We are celebrating 200 episodes of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Listen in and join the fun! Trust us; there will be plenty of laughs and some behind-the-scenes stuff we've never discussed.
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199. Another Impromptu Conversation for Husbands
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Today, I (Rich) am in the studio with one of my close friends, Tommy McKiernan, recording another impromptu conversation for husbands. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Join us as we talk about what intimacy looks like and why it's so important.
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You ever get to that place in your marriage where you and your spouse are no longer going to do anything until your spouse changes first? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about what it will take to break free from this kind of gridlock in your marriage.
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197. Impromptu Conversation for Husbands
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A buddy of mine (Rich) came over to hang out and I pulled him in the studio to have an impromptu conversation about all things relating to husbands. Join me as I talk with my good friend Tino Urias about the role of husband and what it looks like day-to-day.
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196. 5 Reasons You're Not Having Sex
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Today Rich and DeAnna are having humorous conversation around sex and why you might not be having as much as you would like. Get ready to giggle and belly laugh with us as we laugh at ourselves and the funny things that become roadblocks to us having more sex.
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We surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to a single question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
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We surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to our only question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
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193. Plastic Surgery and Your Marriage
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On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we are sharing our thoughts about plastic surgery and how it could affect your marriage.
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192. Pre-Marital Counseling - Don't Skip It
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Are you or someone you know getting married in 2023. If so, you do not want to miss today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Did you know couples who have pre-marital counseling reduce their risk for divorce by 31%? That benefit alone is worth pursuing pre-marital counseling. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss the benefits and dispel some of…
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Let's start 2023 off right with realistic expectations and goals. Rich and DeAnna share some of theirs for the new year and how you can make achieving your goals in 2023 a reality.
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