Bästa Talks Shidduchim podcaster (2024)

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100: Our Very Last Show - The End Part 2 - Everybody Talks Jewish Matchmaking 1:32:47

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100: Our Very Last Show - The End Part 2 - Everybody Talks Jewish Matchmaking Nobody Talks Shidduchim Podcast (2019 - 2023) Thank you to our amazing listeners! IJ (Izak) and Avery (Avigdor) retire after 4 years. They discuss Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking. It’s a big one folks! Izak and Avigdor pull down the curtain, it’s not goodbye son, it’s I’ll s…

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99: The End Part 1 - We Talked Shidduchim 44:04

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After 4 years of talking shidduchim, Izak and Avigdor retire. --- Our goal is to help guys and girls navigate the 2023 American Jewish dating scene aka #Shidduchim. 💻Linktr.ee💻 ➜Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/shidduchim --------------------------------- 📷Instagram📷 Nobody Talks Shidduchim➜ https://www.instagram.com/nobodytalksshidduchim -------------…

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98: Myths of Marriage After Singlehood (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen & Avery 1:36:53

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Episode #98: Myths of Marriage (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen and AveryEver think it’s all going to be solved after you tie the knot? Well the good news is that a bunch of it is but the journey doesn’t stop there. NTS co-host & Holy Shid creator Ahuva Shandelman leads us in Shidduch Conjugation. 1) Thoughts abo…

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97: How To Plan Your Travel (ft. Shlomo From Nashville) 54:28

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97 - How To Plan Your Travel (ft. Shlomo From Nashville)In this episode we discuss the minutia‘s of traveling as well as Jewish singles trying to arrange trips.We have all tried to get away for the weekend or take a lavish vacation and when we were younger this was one of the easiest things to do because family is just a text away and friends are j…

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96: That's Your Role Model? 48:32

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Ever have a role model growing up? We all look to someone as a person that we can strive to be. In high school it may be the senior when you are a freshman. In camp it may be your counselor when you are a camper. Or in yeshiva it could be a Morah or Rabbi of yours. In this episode we discuss role models, and what they mean to you and your life. Pai…

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95: Your Mental Health Getup 1:33:03

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Today’s episode focuses on the topics of mental health and depression. We chat with David Izso who is the host of dont worry bout it podcast and a shidduch dater.1) Mental Health 1012) Symptoms of Mental Health3) If you struggle with Mental Health, how do you know if you are in an okay place to date someone?4) How do you know if you should still da…

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94: Bachelor Party Bitachon (ft. Yosef, Eliyahu & Shua) 1:32:13

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94 - Bachelor Party Bitachon So the main man is getting married and it’s happening, the big wedding day that everyone’s excited about. But now it’s time to throw the bachelor party. What can you do as an Orthodox Jew doing a bachelor party? Are there limits to the fun you can have? What is a Jewish bachelor party like? Yosef, Eliyahu & Shua/Jared j…

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93: Enter The Multiverse - What It Was Like To Be Married For The Day 1:19:32

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Enter The Meta-Shidduch-Verse: What It Was Like To Be Married For The Day THE SHIDDUCHVERSE aka Multiverse:IJ and Avery enter the meta-verse...After opening up a magical box of Latkes on Chanukah...In the universe of Westeros IJ and Avery have different lives.In this alternative reality IJ is a stay at home Dad (with a cool haircut home biz), marri…

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92: Here’s How To Plan A Magical Date (ft. Malky) 1:05:34

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Izak and Malky follow up from episode 5, they discuss the full process of actually planning a date. Though, this time it's magical and it's exactly how the ladies would like it to be :). Izak also wears a wicked cool Chanukah sweater. 1) What is the best first date place? 2) Where do you go for the second? After going to a Lounge for the first date…

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91: Tales of the Shidduch Journeywoman and The Chagim 1:06:56

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91: Tales of the Shidduch Journeywoman What is a Journeywoman? A woman who is an experienced and competent professional in her field but doesn't yet have that "trophy boyfriend or husband" to show off! So we have heard from the journeymen; now we are spotlighting the journeywomen, well one woman and that's Rivka who tells us what's going on with th…

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90: Long Distance Dating and Reflecting On That Whole Zoom Thing 49:35

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90 - Long Distance Dating and Reflecting On That Whole Zoom Thing We continue the long-distance convo from episode 72. Long-distance can be quite the challenge for many couples but it could also provide a very unique and special experience. There’s a plethora of awesomeness and problems that can take place during a long distance relationship. Are y…

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89: How I Met Your Therapist (ft. Ahuva Shandelman a.k.a. Holy Shid) 1:32:10

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89: How I Met Your Therapist (ft. Ahuva Shandelman a.k.a. Holy Shid) Ever wonder how orthodox Jewish women become dating coaches or therapists? in this episode, we discuss with dating expert Ahuva Shandelman LCSW how she got to where she is today. The gang also discusses the continuous tales of the Shidduch journey-person. Dating specialists tales:…

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88: There’s Nothing Wrong With You Because You Are Single (ft. Jackie Glaser) 1:05:07

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88: There’s nothing wrong with you because you are single (ft. Jackie Glaser) In a world with so much stereotyping of orthodox Jewish singles, Jackie Glaser brings a fresh perspective On the fact that there really isn’t anything wrong with you. Dating is mostly a struggle for frum Singles, here are some ways you can alleviate your dating experience…

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87: Brachos and Segulas: Are They Hocus Pocus or Will It Get You Married? 1:25:40

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Ep 87 Brachos and Segulas: Are they hocus pocus or will it get you married? In this episode IJ & Avery discuss the concept of brachos & segulas people receive regarding be marrige. 1. What are the brachos & seuglas people refer to you need before marrige? 2. Mazal 3. Do the rabbinim really have any insight in to whom you will get married to? 4. Are…

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86: Zodiac Signs, Names & The Unknown 1:01:00

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Ep 86: Zodiac Signs, Names & The Unknown Even in Game of Thrones there was the religious, spooky and unknown factors out there in that universe. Here on NTS we believe that there are other things that could cause and effect shidduch dating. IJ, Avery & Cousin Malcolm opine… 1) Zodiac Signs Intro 2) Zodiac Signs: is it real that some zodiacs cannot …

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85: Hobbies, Social Clubs & Going Home for the Chagim 51:21

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85 - Hobbies, Social Clubs & Going Home for the Chagim When you are not working or with the friends/family, orthodox jewish singles have a unique opportunity, this is; to explore new things and new social groups. After that Paige & the NTS guys discuss more on the single life coterie. 1) Escaping too much family time during yuntif! 2) What kinds of…

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84: The Corporate & Jewish Life Balance (ft. Rachel Salutsky & Shlomo from Nashville) 1:26:23

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A work life balance is certainly something we all strive for. Is it truly feasible while living in Orthodox Jewish life? In this episode we bring on corporate employees who try to make best of their Jewish life and work life balance. Our grandparents had to give it up if they had to work for Shabbos, are we any different? 1) What is a corporate pla…

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83: Serial Shidduch Daters (ft. Sarah Haskell aka @ThatRelatableJew) 1:14:46

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Ever notice that you enjoy the power of the swipe more than the dating itself? Maybe it's the rush or maybe you just haven't found Mr. or Mrs. Perfect yet. Sarah Haskell (Tiktok content creator as That Relatable Jew) joins Avery and IJ to discuss serial shidduch daters, shidduchim and the dating life as an orthodox Jewish twenties & thirties year o…

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82: Shabbatons and How To Throw A Singles Event (ft. Devorah & Isaac aka Jo Jo) 1:09:58

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Ever think that there should be more shidduch shabbatons out there? We agree. Izak record's this episode with Isaac and Devora from Build A Bayis Inc., a shidduch events & shabbaton organization that looks to keep singles “busy” all the time. 1) What is a Shabbaton? 2) Why is speed dating so darn popular! 3) Walk us through the planning details! 4)…

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81: Food, Family & Guilt (ft. Chef Mendy) 1:25:52

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Episode 81: Food, Family & Guilt The Role of Food in the Jewish Community with Chef Mendy Wolf. HBO’s Sopranos was a phenomenal depiction of Italian life in America. Perhaps the most relatable aspect of the show was its depiction of all things food, eating & solid cuisine. What is the role of food in the Jewish community, does it mean more to our c…

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80: How The Extra Curriculars Didn’t Help Us Or Did It? 1:23:13

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In this episode NTS crew discusses how the "extra curriculars" helped or didn’t help daters in their shidduch journey. Growing up in the Jewish community, we are raised young to commit to duty, family and community. The propensity for young jewish people to be involved in the jewish community is ramped. There are hundreds of organizations that we g…

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79: What Your Yeshiva Pick Says About You 41:01

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Episode 79 - What your Yeshiva pick says about you IJ is joined by Yeshiva Bucher Jeremy. He has a ton to share and help answer some questions about what goes on during this Israel yeshiva seminary gap-year experience and the yeshiva life when you get back! 1) What is the yeshiva seminary experience? 2) Describe the seminary’s for us…if you go here…

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78: A Single’s Guide To Summer 1:00:07

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Episode 78: A Single’s Guide To Summer Izak (IJ) sits down with c-host Paige for a one on one on how singles can manage their summer. Afterwards, Avery and Ahuva discuss what the Shid School of Love is!? 1) Summer is just another day that's warmer 2) Singles events and singles gatherings 3) The Shidduch Underworld 4) Community events! Bring a doggy…

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77: Good Things About Shidduchim (ft. Baila Sebrow) 1:26:35

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In this episode, the Mic gets turned around to the happy shidduch goer's side of the dating system. This is an episode all about Good things about shidduchim and the shadchan! We are joined by Baila Sebrow and Cousin Malcolm. 1) Benefits of using a Shadchanit 2) Baila gives us her take 3) What's holding back singles today? 4) Anxieties and what wen…

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76: Age Gaps Explored (ft. Ahuva Shandelman A.K.A. Holy Shid) 1:14:00

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Episode 76: Age Gaps Explored - Nobody Talks Shidduchim Podcast We’ve discussed many age facets on this show, but IJ & Avery delve into this topic when it comes to the many classes of age compatibility. Are there actual reasons of age differences? There is such a stigma here about guys just dating younger girls, so many do that; so why do we make c…

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75: Workplace Shidduch Stories 1:07:45

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75) Workplace Shidduch Stories & how to navigate working life while single. Rachel Salutsky and JoJo visit IJ and Avery. This episode is about American Jewish dating and its affects in the workplace. Have you ever been assigned to a new project at work and in comes your new partner...and wow!!! you’re taken by surprise because you think they’re cut…

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Ep 74: Culture Shockers (ft. Hassidic Hipster) 1:00:11

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Hasidic Hipster Sarah Guigue stops by. Cousin Malcom too. Ever see my big fat Greek wedding? Culture shockers are real in Shiduchim. There are so many different kinds of minhags or customs or rituals that families have. In this episode, the NTS crew rant about the best to the worst in shidduch dating culture shockers! 1) Family Huggers 2) Bris 3) S…

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Ep 73: A History on Jewish Dating and The Great Singles Migration to New York 1:18:11

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A History on Shidduch Dating and The Great Singles Migration - NTS The NTS Crew sits down with shidduch scholar Malcom.In this episode we discuss the history of Shidduch dating, the great singles migration and how certain places became the singles go to places to live. What they are like and what they have to offer This NTS episode discusses a brie…

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Ep 72: A Long Distance Fairy Tale, Meeting On Social Media & Trying To Get Back Together 41:40

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IJ sits down for a tell all to discuss his long distance fairytale. He found love but God had other plans. Long-distance can be quite the challenge for many couples but it could also provide a very unique and special experience. There’s a lot of character development and growth that takes place during long distance relationships; are you one of tho…

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Ep 71: Dating Coach Consultation 1:15:21

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This episode discusses small tidbits from a consultation with a dating coach. We are joined by Rivka Janowski Rochind.Rivka offers us tips so we can brush up on our dates. Is there a way for us to be more cognizant on our dates? 1) Being tuned in on dates 2) remembering there names 3) What if you seemed tuned out, what do you do? 4) Does this mean …

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Ep 70: Toxic Relationships & Platonic Friends Part 2 with Holy Shid Ahuva Shandelman 49:55

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Ep 70) Toxic friends & Platonic Relationships [Holy Shid] Part 2 You grew up with them, shared the most sentimental memories with them; but once you enter the shidduch core...everything changes. Toxic friends exists and they are holding you back from your shiduch excursions. Holy Shid joins us to discuss what to do. 1) Shid breaks down what a toxic…

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Ep 69: Toxic Friends & Platonic Relationships Part 1 with Holy Shid Ahuva Shandelman 58:57

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Episode 69: Toxic Friends & Platonic Relationships Part 1 with Holy Shid's Ahuva Shandelman.You grew up with them, shared the most sentimental memories with them; but once you enter the shidduch core...everything changes. Toxic friends exists and they are holding you back from your shiduch excursions. Holy Shid joins us to discuss what to do. 1) Sh…

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Ep 68: The Family Has "Issues", What Do I Do? 1:01:39

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Ep 68 - The family has “issues”, what do I do? In this continuation of stigmatize dating we discuss more stigmatized issues that occur during your dating life cycle. Of course everyone hopes and believes and imagine that they are going to get the full package. The father-in-law is president of the young Israel the mother is coordinating three tehil…

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Ep 67: Tales of The Shidduch Journeymen 42:22

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In the NBA, Journeymen is a titular title bestowed upon those who have played the game for many many years; moving from team to team. The NTS guys reflect on recent shidduch developments in their lives. A bit not scripted, this episode delves through lessons taught from the journey men of american jewish dating.Nobody Talks Shidduchim discusses:Shi…

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Ep 66: A Father’s Fireside Chat (About Their Children Dating) 1:03:04

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Not every guy gets the privilege to have asteve martin from father of the bride esque father-in-law. But, our guest, Avi Dreyfuss may be the closest thing to it. As a father, who has successfully vetted and dealt with numerous guys attempting to steal his daughter. Avi would provide us with some keen insight on how guys should present themselves so…

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Ep 65: Has Your Seminary Experience Ruined Your Dating Life? 1:16:52

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Ep 65: Has your seminary experience ruined your dating life? IJ and Avery are joined by Hanna and Rosie. They have a ton to share and help answer some questions about what goes on during this israel seminary experience. 1) What is the seminary experience? 2) Describe the seminary’s for us…if you go here you’re like this etc… Group pics & experience…

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Ep 64: Shadchanit Tell-All ft. Hindy Laster A.K.A. Queens Shadchan (with Yonah and Chani) 1:02:43

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Co-Hosts Yona & Chani focus the mic on a matchmaker to discuss her side of the story. This matchmaker is the Queens Shadchanit, Mrs. Hindy Laster. She describes to us all the inside and latest trends, the best feedback the worst feedback and lets us walk away with good hints.1. Process and intake system for Shadchanit2. How A Shadchanit gets starte…

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Ep 63: Can Married & Single People Hang Out Together?? In Passaic NJ They Do!! 1:10:11

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Ep 63: Passaic Single Guys Actually Hang With Married Guys. Is there a world where singles and married people can actually hang out in? In Passaic New Jersey, it seems so. NTS crew discusses what the situation is by this rare; yet fun chevra does, to be able to hang out all together. 1) Can single guys hang out with married guys? 2) Married people …

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Ep 62: Smoking, Vices & The Real Mad Men of Shidduchim (ft. Ahuva Holy Shid) 1:07:57

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Ep 62: Smoking, Vices & The Real Mad Men of Shidduchim w. Ahuva Holy ShidIJ and Avery discuss with the gang all things smoking and other vices. The year is 2022, you can smoke pot but not a cigarette; you can eat unhealthy kugel and Chulent but not vape around granny. It’s abundantly clear that our society has taken drastic changes on vices you can…

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Ep 61: Where to Eat on a date & The National Kosher Food Crawl w. Kosher Guru 1:16:19

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In this episode Avery & IJ host The Kosher Guru aka Gabriel Boxer & Lea from @KosherLicks who tells us about all the hot spot kosher restaurants. Ever have a date at an amazing restaurant? Yes it’s hard to plan and expensive at times. Sit with us for dinner as we virtual restaurant Shidduch date crawl with the Guru who knows where to go. 1) What yo…

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Ep 60: Is therapy the answer to your dating problems? (ft. Ahuva Shandelman & Sarale) 1:27:26

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In this week's episode we bring on Sarale and Ahuva AKA Holy Shid. We wanted to share Sarale's inspirational story regarding her shidduch journey. We also discuss Lubavitcher dating.In this episode we discuss: 1. How much people can change over time and how that change sometimes leads to you to find the person you were looking for. 2 How dating in …

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Ep 59: Lakewood Girls Talk 1:11:42

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In this episode Avery and IJ bring on Michal and Tami, two daters who reside in Lakewood and have experience going through the Shidduch system. Avery and IJ take a backseat and listen to what the girls have to say in regards to their dating encounters. 1) A brief introduction to what dating is like in Lakewood 2) Do you feel you are judged more har…

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Ep 58: Dating App, Other Ways To Meet & Modox Dating 56:28

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58) Dating Apps, other ways to meet and Modox dating Avery and IJ have discussed many ways for daters to meet in shidduchim and at singles events. But what about those dating apps, Shabbatones or community salsa outings? In this episode The NTS crew sits down with Shlomo from Nashville and Ally from the Valley; 2 app daters, to discuss how the helk…

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Ep 57: Stigma stigma on the wall we discuss divorce dating, broken engagements and all 1:10:15

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Stigmatized Dating - Divorce, Broken Engagement, Long Term Relationships, etc… In today’s day and age, we have hopefully moved past a place where we allow stigmas about people to decide whether or not they are dateable, and should be given a chance. Emotional scars from entering and exiting these relationships and whether or not you are still carry…

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Ep 56: The things your parents & rabeim didn't tell you about marriage (Ft. Avi Singer) 47:40

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56) How to be prepared for marriage In this week's edition of the NobodyTalks Shidduchim Podcast, we sit down with Avi Singer. Avi is a licensed marrige and family therapist as well as small business owner. Throughout this episode, we discuss: 1) What does an ideal frum marriage look like 2) How one can prepare him/herself to be the ideal person th…

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Ep 55: Seasons Come & Go But Yom Tov Never Changes & Shabbos Is On The Way! 40:44

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Ep 55: Seasons Come & Go But Yom Tov Never Changes & Shabbos Is On The Way! Dreading Yom Tov, is this where we are at? The holidays are tough for singles. Avery & IJ discuss the challenges. Shabbos is discussed by the Shidduch Podcast crew. 1) The worst yom tov to be single? 2) Getting suggestions by your local shul family friend 3) Programs Progra…

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54: Fantastic Hashkafas and How to Find Them [Hashkafa Part 2] 1:08:37

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In ep 54 the NTS crew with Meghan discusses hashkafa. We label it, we box it and we subject the hashkafic orientations out there. Just because We do this, doesn’t mean there’s less to a person. But in shidduchim it’s important to identify where you stand on things. What’s important to bring up, what should be brought up and what may just be ok to w…

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EP 53: Hashkafa Matters aka Religious Orientation [Hashkafa Part 1] 1:00:33

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Yona & Chani join Avery to have a sophisticated and nuanced discussion over the many differences and similarities those of us share when it comes to our hashkafos in Shidduchim. We tackle the concept of dating someone based on various stereotypes such as wearing a black hat, davening in Young Israel's and preferring a TV in your home. 1) Defining r…

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EP 52: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer #3 [Part 3: The Rabbi Strikes Back] 42:36

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EP 52: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer #3 [Part 3: The Rabbi Strikes Back] Navigating the relationship w/shomer in mind. Halachic & Rabbinic perspectives of being shomer negiah. In part 3 of shomer we wrap it up with Rabbi AY’s encounters as a Rabbi & halachic perspective. We also discussed some new aspects of Shomer Negiah, which we did not touch up on…

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EP 51: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer [Part 2: The Girl Dater’s Take] 54:20

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In this week's episode we bring in Paige, a long time dater and resident expert on shomer negiah for the female daters perspective. Having been in her own long term relationships before, we appreciated hearing why she is complexly pro staying shomer until marriage. Some girls call in as well to weigh in on the issues. We also discussed some new asp…

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