Making big decisions in highly charged emotional situations when the stakes are high and the outcome is uncertain can be paralyzing. In this podcast, we deconstruct difficult decision-making in a variety of contexts, including divorce, marriage, relationships, family, career, business, and more. Each week Karen Covy, Divorce Coach, Consultant, and Lawyer interviews industry professionals and seasoned experts from a variety of walks of life to discover their tips, techniques, and insights for ...
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Why Do We Love the Way We Do? Attachment Styles (Part 1)
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Ever wonder why you chose the spouse that you did? Or why you and your spouse seem to be locked in the same dance – pushing each other’s buttons and arguing over the same things you’ve argued about 1000 times before? In this podcast episode, Bev Mitelman, a certified attachment practitioner and founder of Securely Loved, discusses the profound impa…
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Dana Cox's Bold Leap: Life After a 33-Year Marriage
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What drives someone to redefine their life after decades of marriage? How can you live through some of life’s biggest challenges – like the loss of a child, the loss of a job and the loss of a marriage, and not only survive but thrive afterwards? In this podcast episode Dana Cox shares her transformative journey of personal growth and resilience af…
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Phyllis Leavitt: How to Handle Conflict Without Creating More Pain
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How amazing would your marriage, your family, and your community be if you had the tools to transform conflict into connection? In this podcast episode, psychotherapist and author Phyllis Leavitt dives deeply into the complex topic of conflict resolution and decision-making within personal relationships, families, and communities. She breaks down t…
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Raiford Palmer: The Biggest Divorce Mistakes Successful People Make
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When divorce attorney and bestselling author Raiford Palmer sits down for a conversation, he doesn’t hold back. In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Raif draws from nearly three decades of legal experience to share not only his legal insights in divorce, but also his own journey through divorce. That journey reshaped his legal practice, he…
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A Police Officer's Simple Safety Tips That Could Save Your Life
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What would you do if your personal safety was at risk? Do you even know what you would do? This podcast episode takes a deep dive into practical safety strategies with Catherine Trimboli, a seasoned law enforcement professional turned personal protection advocate. Catherine shares how she empowers high-level women to feel secure through situational…
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When is the Right Time to Divorce?
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Is there ever a right time to divorce? Is there such a thing as waiting too long to get a divorce? How do you know if NOW is the right time to go? In this special episode, we dive into the thorny question of when to divorce by exploring the story of Sue, who faces the heart-wrenching decision of whether to leave her husband, Brad, due to his escala…
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Maci Chance: How to Turn Heartbreak Into a New Life
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How do you decide whether to keep the house in your divorce? With your home typically being one of the biggest assets you have, it’s not a simple question. It also has tremendous implications for your future, both from a financial, as well as from an emotional standpoint. In this podcast episode, real estate expert Maci Chance shares her own journe…
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When Love Isn't Enough: Options for Navigating a Sexless Marriage
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Love and intimacy can be complicated, especially when sexual challenges arise in a marriage. In this podcast episode Janelle Orion, an Ivy League-educated life coach, opens up about her unique path from a deeply committed relationship to a sexless marriage to a "divorce in love." In this candid conversation, Janelle shares how she married for the f…
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8 Ways to Create A Better Future With Divorce Financial Planning
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What if there was a simple way that you could save time and money in your divorce while also securing your post-divorce financial future too? By creating a divorce financial plan you can do exactly that. Amy Colton, a wealth advisor, mediator, and the founder of Your Divorce Made Simple LLC, shares her unique approach to divorce financial planning …
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How to Decide Whether to Divorce Using Discernment Therapy
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What do you do when you’re leaning towards getting a divorce and your spouse wants to work on your marriage? That’s the question we dive into today in this discussion with Dr. Ginny Wright, a seasoned clinical psychologist who is certified in discernment therapy (a/k/a discernment counseling.) Dr. Wright works with couples who are on the brink of d…
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Parenting Marriages Unpacked with Susan Gadoua
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What happens when a marriage is no longer working, but the couple wants to stay together for the kids? Is there a way that they can continue to co-parent together, pursue romantic relationships outside of their marriage, but also avoid getting a divorce until their kids are grown? According to therapist and author Susan Pease Gadoua the answer is “…
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How to Divorce-Proof Your Business with John Rodriguez
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Imagine discovering that your life's work could vanish overnight. John Rodriguez, co-founder of Hill Country Business Strategies, reveals just how fragile many small businesses are, especially when their owners go through a divorce. With his unique background as both an entrepreneur and advisor, John provides invaluable insights into what happens t…
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Karis Nafte: The Truth About Pet Custody in Divorce
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In today’s podcast conversation, Karis Nafte, a certified dog behavior consultant and family mediator, delves into the sensitive issue of pet custody during a breakup or divorce. With over 25 years of experience and her deep understanding of dog behavior, Karis has a unique perspective on what’s really best for your dog when you divorce. Karis expl…
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A Child's Perspective: Misty Hardison On Divorce's Hidden Impact
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Ever wondered how to truly support your children through the emotional whirlwind of divorce? Family law attorney and children’s book author, Misty Hardison from the Rosen Law Firm in North Carolina, knows. As a family law attorney, Misty has seen how children often struggle to express their feelings and concerns during their parents’ divorce, parti…
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Cary Jacobson: How to Save Money with a Flat Fee Divorce
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What if getting divorced didn't have to be a painful, expensive, and drawn-out battle? According to Cary Jacobson, founder and CEO of Jacobson Family Law, it doesn’t have to be. Cary's firm takes a radically different approach to divorce than most divorce lawyers. They only handle non-litigated cases, focusing on mediation and Collaborative Divorce…
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Breaking Free from Fear: The Path to Self-Worth with Junie Moon
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Ever wonder how societal norms and deep-seated beliefs shape your relationships and self-worth? In this episode, Junie Moon, CEO of Midlife Love Out Loud, shares her transformational journey from a life consumed by fear and low self-esteem to one of self-love and empowerment. Junie reveals the life-changing impact that Shadow Work had for her and h…
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Jennifer Urezzio: Unlock Your Soul’s Power and Achieve Success
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Imagine unlocking the power of your soul to revolutionize your business and relationships. That's exactly what Jennifer Urezzio, an intuitive business strategist and creator of Soul Language, helps people do. With nearly 20 years of experience in personal development and spiritual growth, Jennifer enables individuals to bypass years of talk therapy…
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Candace Dellacona: Protecting Wealth Without Worry in the Sandwich Generation
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How do you protect your family's wealth and legacy while juggling the responsibilities of the "sandwich generation"? In this episode, high-powered estate planning attorney Candace Dellacona shares her extensive expertise in estate planning, asset protection, elder law, and special needs advocacy to help answer some of the most pressing questions ab…
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Love Without Limits: Andrea Enright Explores Polyamory And Personal Growth
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Curious about polyamory? In this podcast episode, Andrea Enright, a brand messaging expert and transition coach, takes us on her journey from a traditional Midwest upbringing to a life of entrepreneurial success and unique relationship dynamics. Andrea's transformative experiences began when she and her husband joined the Peace Corps at age 30, whi…
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Harnessing Empathy for Better Decision-Making with Dr. Stephanie Grunewald
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Can empathy be your superpower in making better decisions? According to Dr. Stephanie Grunewald, the answer is definitely, “Yes!” In this podcast episode Dr. Stephanie shares her personal journey from traditional therapist to mastermind and retreat leader and founder of Ancorio. Inspired by her own transformative experiences during a challenging pe…
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Divorcing Your Clutter: Gayle Gruenberg's Unique Guide To Letting Go
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Ever felt overwhelmed by clutter and chaos? Or maybe your spouse loves to be surrounded by “stuff” and you don’t - and it’s causing big problems in your marriage. Gayle Gruenberg is a Certified Professional Organizer who helps people create systems to simplify their lives. In this fascinating interview, Gayle shares insights from her 21-year career…
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Struggling with Step-Parenting? Maria Natapov's Advice Might Surprise You
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What do you do when getting married means you’ll instantly become BOTH a spouse and a step-parent? How do you blend families smoothly, and eliminate the struggle that can blow a newly blended family apart? In this podcast episode, experienced step-parenting coach Maria Natapov shares invaluable insights into the world of blended families. As a step…
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Protect Your Assets And Safeguard Your Wealth With Lindsey Paige Markus
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The two things everyone will face one day are death and taxes. Estate planning attorney Lindsey Paige Markus helps her clients plan for what will happen at their death and protect as much of their wealth from unnecessary taxes as possible. As a trusted advisor and bestselling author, Lindsey demystifies the world of trusts, asset protection, and ta…
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Philip LaGiglia: The New Mortgage That Makes Home Buying Easy
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With today’s interest rates and the low inventory of available housing, buying a new home isn’t nearly as “do-able” today as it was a few years ago. Homes are being sold before they’re technically even on the market. Bidding wars are common. Couples now find themselves facing hard decisions about how they’ll both be able to find housing post-divorc…
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The Resilience Recipe: Wangari Kamau's Secrets For Bouncing Back
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Wangari Kamau, the founder of Soma Global Consulting, is no stranger to life's challenges. From standing up against unequal pay to enduring a complicated international divorce after a nearly 30-year marriage, she has weathered many storms. Yet through it all, she found the resilience to not just survive, but thrive. Her journey led her to develop p…
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Embracing Your Inner Compass: The Power of Intuitive Decision-Making with Fran Gallaher
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Have you ever experienced a moment when your gut feeling guided you to make a decision that logic couldn't explain? Sit tight as I, Karen Covey, joined by Fran Gallaher, an intuitive leadership coach, explore the misunderstood yet fascinating world of intuition in decision-making. We unravel the intricate relationship between intuition, emotions, a…
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Katy Mickelson: Can Pre and Post Nups Make Stronger Marriages?
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Pre-Nups and Post-Nups are generally regarded as being manipulative and unromantic. But what if you could use prenups and postnups to make your marriage stronger? In this podcast episode, family law attorney Katy Mickelson pulls back the curtain on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. She explains what they can and cannot cover, what they require…
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How to Use EFT to Unlock Your Subconscious Blocks with Theresa Lear Levine
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Have you ever felt locked in a cycle of stress that you just can't seem to break free from? In this episode, Theresa Lear Levine shares a technique that could be your key to emotional liberation. As an EFT master practitioner and hypnotherapist, Theresa brings to light the transformative potential of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) - a method th…
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How to Find the Right Divorce Attorney: Ian Steinberg The Anti-Shark
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Think divorce lawyers intentionally stir the pot and create conflict to line their own pockets? Ian Steinberg is different. As a top New York family law attorney Ian is on a mission to help people through one of life's most challenging transitions. Unlike some other divorce lawyers, Ian advocates for a team approach where divorce lawyers, divorce c…
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Practical Wisdom For Navigating Change With Jenny Stevens
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How do you stay standing when life throws its toughest punches? Divorce coach and therapist Jenny Stevens has been through it all ... and mostly all at once! In this powerful episode, Jenny recounts how she survived divorce, cancer, the death of her mother, and then the death of her ex-husband, all within a few years. Jenny's life experiences spark…
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Chelsea Gajewski: How To Keep Anxiety From Derailing Divorce
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Anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges often strain a marriage to the breaking point. Yet divorcing someone who struggles with mental health issues is fraught with its own challenges. Family law attorney Chelsea Gajewski works at the intersection of family law and mental health. In this podcast episode, Chelsea explains how differe…
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Harnessing Intuition for Better Decision-Making with Veronica Drake
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Have you ever felt a gentle whisper in your soul, urging you to take a leap of faith that doesn’t seem logical in the moment? Veronica Drake, an intuitive coach, helps midlife female entrepreneurs reconnect with their inner voice so that they can make better decisions and find creative solutions to their business and personal problems. In this podc…
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Dr. Mort Orman Reveals How to Never Be Angry Again
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Are anger issues hijacking your relationships? If you find that you (or your spouse!) constantly get angry over the smallest things, chances are that anger is an unwanted partner in your marriage. While most therapists talk about helping you “manage” your anger, Dr. Mort Orman has developed a system that helps you eliminate your anger completely: N…
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Divorcing with Dollars and Sense: Getting Financial Clarity with My Divorce Solution
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Understanding and navigating the financial end of divorce is one of the biggest challenges many divorcing people face. That’s especially true for those who DIDN’T handle the family finances during their marriage. Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan know firsthand the financial chaos divorce can cause. That’s why they created “My Divorce Solution,”…
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Locked in Battle with Your Ex? Karen Knab's Secrets to Winning at Conflict
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Karen Knab is not your average executive coach - she's a master at transforming conflict into constructive dialogue. Whether navigating the choppy waters of family drama or the boardroom's fierce currents, Karen's expertise helps you take back control and resolve your arguments with your ex, your kids, or your boss, more amicably. Karen has cracked…
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Andrea Vacca on How to Use Collaborative Divorce to Reduce Drama
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Divorce doesn't have to be a battleground. Attorney Andrea Vacca has cracked the code on keeping families out of court and preserving their well-being throughout the divorce process. As a trailblazer in Collaborative Divorce and other alternative dispute resolution processes, Andrea’s approach is redefining what's possible when a marriage ends. The…
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A Father's Love: Erik Feig on Navigating Divorce in Neurodiverse Families
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Erik Feig is an attorney, a mediator, and the father of three neurodivergent children. Navigating through the COVID-19 pandemic with his own complex family inspired him to leave the practice of law and create a mediation practice focused on helping other families with neurodiverse children navigate conflict more effectively. In this podcast episode…
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A Conversation on Divorce, Mediation, and Growth with Lesa Koski
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Lesa Koski - a lawyer turned mediator - has a passion for helping couples divorce differently and suffer less. In her work as a mediator, Lesa has identified 7 common dilemmas divorcing women face. Those dilemmas range from finances to housing and from parenting to loneliness. To deal with all of these dilemmas, Lesa encourages her clients to educa…
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Amy Lin on Charting a New Path Through Divorce with Anew
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Amy Lin was married for 20 months. Her divorce took 3 years. Most of that time was spent wrangling through the arcane, time-consuming, and inefficient "discovery process" in the legal system. After her divorce was over, Amy decided to create a software platform to make the financial discovery process more efficient and affordable so that no one had…
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Michael Cohen on Creating Better Outcomes Through Divorce Mediation
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When divorce looms, people usually focus on the assets and finances first. But to divorce mediator Michael Cohen, the kids should always come first. Michael's own contentious divorce fueled his metamorphosis from corporate executive to passionate divorce mediator. As a mediator, Michael helps parents create co-parenting agreements centered on their…
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From Heartbreak to Triumph: Navigating Legal Abuse in Divorce with Lisa Johnson
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In this episode, Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There Got Out, shares her story of going through a high-conflict divorce with an emotionally abusive husband who lived a secret double life. Lisa's divorce ultimately cost her over $80,000 in legal fees to resolve - and that was just the beginning of her legal journey. Lisa then spent 10 years fight…
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Finding Lasting Love with Bela Gandhi's Smart Dating Strategies
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Bela Gandhi, Chicago’s most prominent dating and relationship expert, joins the Off the Fence Podcast to share her tips and tools for creating a lasting and fulfilling relationship. In this podcast episode, Bela peels back the curtain on her transition from the corporate world into the arena of love and relationships. She also reveals some of the s…
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Navigating Love and Entrepreneurship with Franchise Expert Meg Schmitz
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Navigating the intertwined paths of love and entrepreneurship can be as complex as a Brazilian Tango. But Meg Schmitz is an expert who shares the secrets to building BOTH a flourishing relationship AND a successful business. In this podcast episode, Meg opens up about her own complex journey, which began when her then-husband purchased a franchise …
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Karen McMahon: How To Set Boundaries And Navigate High Conflict Divorce
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Karen McMahon understands the challenges of high-conflict divorce. After surviving her own divorce from an emotionally abusive ex-husband, Karen turned to coaching others on how to deal with the complex emotions and dynamics of high-conflict divorce and co-parenting more effectively. In this podcast episode, Karen describes how she helps her client…
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Alexis (Skigen) Rago on Business, Divorce, and Raising Great Kids
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When Alexis Skigen Rago was laid off from her corporate marketing job she knew that – as much as she loved her children - she wouldn’t be happy as a stay-at-home mom. Yet, returning to the corporate world – with its rigid culture and grueling time demands – was equally unappealing. So Alexis took the bold step of starting her own marketing strategy…
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How to Divorce a Narcissist with Tracy Malone
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Living with a narcissist is hard. Divorcing a narcissist is even harder. Tracy Malone, the powerhouse behind NarcissistAbuseSupport.com, knows firsthand how ugly divorcing a narcissist can be. In this podcast episode Tracy opens up about her personal journey of divorcing a narcissist, including the manipulative behavior, gaslighting, and abusive li…
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Divorce Inside Out: Kathleen Brigham's Unique Bird-Nesting Life
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When Kathleen Brigham and her husband divorced, they did something most parents never do – they “bird nested.” What’s more, not only did they bird nest during their divorce, but they continued to rotate in and out of their family home for years after their divorce, all while their children stayed put. In this podcast episode, Kathleen Brigham walks…
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The Best of "Off the Fence" in 2023
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Have you ever felt stuck in indecision and trapped in a life you no longer want to live? Have you hesitated to get a divorce because you KNOW how ugly your toxic spouse will make it? Are you worried about getting a divorce and starting all over again "at your age"? ( ... i.e. when you're over 50!) Have you suffered from trauma in your marriage and …
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What's Your Soul Salary? Finding Your Joy with Jessica Kaskov
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For 15 years Jessica Kaskov worked as an engineer in a manufacturing company. When the company announced layoffs, Jessica did some deep soul searching. She realized that, while she was good at engineering, her real passion came from working with people. Even though Jessica ultimately survived that round of layoffs, she began searching for work that…
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How to Handle Porn Addiction with Kevin White & Polly Fleming
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With over 40 million Americans regularly visiting porn sites, pornography is the "dirty little secret" that's hiding under the hood of more divorces than most people realize. In this podcast episode, guests Kevin White and Polly Fleming (who are not married to each other!) share their deeply personal experiences with porn addiction and the cripplin…
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