Alright Alright Alright. Welcome to Episode 55 ” Considering Hot-Husbanding?” In this episode we dive into a listener submitted question , and give our tips and tricks on what we have learned from hubby solo play…. as well as discuss a few things that havent worked out quite as well as planned . Before we address this question, we go thru our norma…

Welcome to episode 54 ” It’s Podbash time again” In a strange twist of fate, we release an episode on time here! As you can tell… we will be catching you up on all the fun we had on our recent Florida trip, especially the fun had at Secrets Resort in Kissimmee . So give us a listen and join in on this sexy retelling ! The post Episode 54 “It’s Podb…

Episode 53 “Splish SPLASH, its pool party season” Welcome to the typically late episode of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast. In this episode, we are going to cover every swingers favorite past-time….. The pool party. We start out with a local friends pool party, then cover the disappointment that was the Club OKCs annual event, and then we finish wit…

Welcome or out 52nd Episode ” Its Time to get Naughty again” In this episode, we break down our CRAZY week at the grandaddy of all LS Events- Naughty in Nawlins. Its been awhile since we recorded, so we got a lot of catching up to do. We discuss major changes in our careers, and how that will affect our travel, marriage and lifestyle dynamics. We c…

Whassup sexies??……..we are back from the great beyond with another fun filled episode ! The Month of June is quickly approaching and soon Naughty in Nawlins will be takig over the sweltering skyline of the BIG EASY. We have many new friends and listeners that have reached out saying they will be joining us this year, and have asked us for our tips …

Welcome to Episode 50 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast “When Unicorns Attack” Weve been out of pocket for a few extra weeks, so we thought we would dive in to a topic that we have been asked about multiple times. We start the episode talking about some things we have going in our personal lives, and look forward to our upcoming anniversary trip, w…

Welcome to Episode 49 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast. In this episode we take on the long standing problem of slut shaming. We start off the episode addressing Mr Flaminogs undying love for Taylor Swift. From there we delve into a few of the events we have been attending , despite being somewhat on a hiatus from lifestyle events and activities. …

Welcome to Episode 48 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast. We had a bit of an extended break from recording due to work and family obligations, but we are back with a fun new offering. In this episode, we catch you up an a lot (but not all) of the things we have been doing in the lifestyle . For starters, we cover a few of the reason we have decided …

Episode 47 ” A Pool Party to Remember” Wow, what can we say about this episode, other than we had a very ODD experience at a pool party, that left both of us in awe. The events of this party led into some discussions about safety in the LS, as well as the imporatane of not only understanding CONSENT, but also practacing it. Since we are getting dee…

Episode 46 ” PodBash 3X” Welcome to our latest episode of The Swinging Flamingos Podcast. After a short hiatus of being on the “blacklist” for our podcast host, we are back again . As noted, we delve into the Grand-Daddy of podcast events, and give our take on this years mega event. Everything from dances, friends from all over, poolside games, as …

Welcomei to Episode 45 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast. In this episode we get into some uniqure discussions(even for us). We start off talking about some fun dates we have been enjoying, as welll as big trip we took with some lifestyle friends to New Orleans, and then Gulf Shores Alabama. We then discuss a new dynamic we seem to be venturing int…

Welcome to the 44th installment of The Swinging Flamingos Podcast. In this episode, we talk about the grand-daddy of events – Naughty in Nawlins. This was the 25th anniversary of the event, as well as our 7th trip to the event. As per our normal bit, we lead into this event with no expectations, and end up having some sexy new experiences regardles…

Episode 43 ” The Flamingos do the ENM Summit” Welcome to another riveting episode of our podcast. In this episode we travel to Houston Texas to attend the ENM Summit put on by Brian and Brenna of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast. The purpose of this event was to gather together people in the industry to debate practices and ideas in the space which…

Hey guys, welcome to Episode 42 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast. I this episode, we have 80 mins of juicy lifestyle events and discussions in store for you. Damn did we have a crazy weeks to share with you. While we didnt have the bandwidth to cover it all this episode, we talk about a pair of sexy house parties we attended, a wacky St Paddys pub…

Episode 41 ” How we pick out playthings” Welcome to the long awaited and overdue 41st episode of our show. In this episode, we answer the tough question of how we go about choosing our play partners. As you will hear, we both have different things we look for, different ideas on what it takes to make a good partner, and have quite opposite views of…

In Episode 40 “Are you fishing a dry hole?” , The Flamingos get in to the discussion if our “fishing” practices are effective, or are we just wasting time. After some recent talks with friends and listeners, we offer up some tips. As basic as it sounds, if your current level of involvement isnt bringing you the play partners you are wanting, maybe …

Episode 39 ” New Years Eve at the Decadence Ball” Hello sexies, we are back already here in the new year with a new episode! In this fun filled episode, we got lots to cover! First we get you up to speed with the normal nonsense in out world Then we talk about some sexy swinger dates we have been having. We had a few uber fun lifestyle evets we sha…

Welcome to Episode 38 “Halloween in December” In an effort to get caught up from our recent hiatus of recording, we decide to share a few of our favorite stories from our last few months travels We start with the Pineapple Play Dates Halloween hotel takeover. We decided to go ALL OUT this year on costumes. Give it a listen to see how that worked ou…

Episode 37 ” Its Podbash Baby”! After nearly a three month hiatus from recording, we are BACK with another action packed episode of our travels. At over an hour and half of content , we apparently had a lot to say! We start this episode by catching the listeners up with where we have been. Life isn’t always sunshine and roses, and sometimes you hav…

Episode 36…….. A review of Naughty in ‘Nawlins…..We could almost leave the description at just that! We make it back to New Orleans for our 6th year at this flagship event, and as always, the event MORE then exceeds expectations. This is SUCH a huge event, that its almost impossible to cover it adequately. Between the time we spent working as ambas…

In this episode, we deal with how to deal with the Fear of MIssing Out, or FOMO, in the lifestyle. Summer is here and events are in full swing. We cant possibly do it all, or can we ? We spend some time discussing what steps we take to avoid, or at least reduce, the effects of FOMO. We identify that this problem may hit some personality types more …

Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast. We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release. We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. U…

In Episode 33 “The Flamingos do the Temptation Cruise ” We cover our recent adventure as part of the Feb 2022 Cruise we kick off this episode in our usual way, by catching up on some smaller Lifestyle events, as well as a recent “poly date” . We find that while dating other couples has its quirks, its NOTHING like dating an established FMF “throupl…

In Episode 32 – “I’m Expected to do WHAT??” we play off some local club drama, where someone felt that just because they were at a lifestyle club, that they were entitled to play. We try to be unbiased and cover both sides of the argument but feel this is a very cut and dried issue. While its been awhile, we recently got to attend the Icandy party …

in Episode 31 “Kissing and Telling in the Lifestyle” we jump headfirst into an all to common question of why people feel the need to brag about lifestyle conquests. Before we jump into the topic at hand, we catch you up on all our zany happenings and travel. First we travel to Oklahoma City to catch our favorite lifestyle comedian and past guest Ro…

In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even. We start off the episode by getting you …

Episode 29 ” Our PodBash Vacation” Holding true to our release dates, we are once again fashionably late…..but we feel it will be worth it for you! In this episode we recap the CRAZY week we had in Florida, where we participated in the PodBash Event http://www.podbashevent.com with a slew of sexy friends and other podcasters. We start our trip with…

In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general. We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party w…

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2…. We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye. Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on t…

In Episode 26 we answer that age old question “Are Singles Swingers?” Alright…Lets just jump in the fire here. We decided to tackle a topic that we see mentioned somewhere online AT LEAST once a month. In Fact…there is sooooo much to cuss and discuss on this topic, that we will be dividing this into not one, but two back to back episodes. In this f…

Episode 25 ” Sun, Buns, and Where’s Waldo?” Wow…………not even sure where to start on describing this episode ! As always, The Club OKC Pool Party DOES NOT disappoint ! In fact, there is so much sex and silliness in this episode that we go WAYYYY past our normal hour of recording time ! We cover the basic stuff of what happens at this week long party.…

In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us . Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends. Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we …

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George , and Flamingos Lost at Sea” talks about all the crazy lifestyle travel we have been doing, as well an AMAZING dinner party we attended. We start off this episode reviewing the elegant dinner we had with the Just for Dinner group. https://www.justfordinner.com/ Do you know George? If not, you are missing out on ever…

In Episode 22 – “Fifty Shades of Kink”, we break down and discuss some various kinks and fetishes we have encountered over the years. Since our last few episodes have been a bit more serious in nature, we decide to lighten things up an throw a bit a humor at you. We start with updating you on our travels, which included a car show trip to Oklahoma …

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle” Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help! In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies. We gi…

What’s this……2 episodes in the same month ? Anyway, fresh off the heels of our trip to Miami to meet with George and Ann of the The Group/ Just for Dinner. (https://the-group.co/) we decide to hit you guys with a fun bonus episode. As we work our way to a sexy yacht in MIAMI, we deal with multiple issues before actually setting foot on the boat. Wh…

Welcome to Episode 19. We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter. We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates. Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend…

In Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk into a Bar” we have the pleasure of chatting with superstar comedian Rob Little http://www.roblitle.com. What else can we say about this episode, other then its our funniest one to date. We meet up with Rob while he is performing in our previous hometown of Oklahoma City for a week of sold out shows …

In Episode 17 – “Do more rules mean less fun?”, we finally break down what our rules are in the lifestyle, as well as our personal boundaries. You thought we were done podcasting, but here we are with another crazy episode. We admit we have been out of the loop for a few weeks, and we finally fess up as to why. We start off this episode with our re…

In Episode 16 “Year One” Issues, we discuss some problems we have seen pop up over the last few months. “Year One” issues are something we feel most couples should have worked thru and discussed VERY early in their introduction into swinging. As you will hear, some of these problems may pop up at ANY time. We’ve had A LOT of adventures lately. In t…

In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently . We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway cont…

In Episode 14 “My Safewrod is Pineapple Suffaluffagus” we recap some of the swinger adventures and dates we have been on in the last month. We actually had a topic in mind, but realized we had way to much travel to talk about. We attended a HUGE party that the icandy group (http://www.icandyparties.com) put on at Colettes Club in Austin TX ( https:…

In Episode 13, “How does the media portray our lifestyle, and how do you portray our lifestyle?” , We have some candid discussions about how the media falsely represents swingers in the media. We also discuss the times that the media does right by swingers. We talk about some additions to http://www.altplayground.net , as well as our new merchandis…

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures. We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life …

In Episode 11, we discuss the “Expectancy” of Bi-women in the lifestyle. We start off with some banter on Mrs Flamingos recent “bi attractions” and get a little insight as to the types of women she seems to be drawn to. Of course we put her on the spot to rattle off 3 celebrities that she has a crush on….and her answers were shockingly (!) all over…

In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!” we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new frien…

We try something new in Episode 8.5 “Hey, that extra 1/2 matters” We decide that we would start doing temporary “follow up” shows to catch the listeners up on what is going down in our world! In this episode we talk about getting blasted on social media for choosing to attend a few events. We talk about Mrs Flamingos receiving her first public gold…

We wanted to start this Episode by recognizing Pride Month. The LGBQT+ community has taken a back seat to all the current sickness and turmoil in the world. In this episode we get to Interview a new friend, Foxy. She is a 32 year old Male to Female transgender, who is very active in both the kink and the swinging community. We start with the basics…

In Episode 7, “Remember when we used to do stuff……” We cave in and address that we feel cut off and isolated from our lifestyle “flock”. We spend some time talking about the events that we loved so much, our tips on conquering these events, and wonder how future events will change in the wake of the Covid-19 pandemic. In a more humorous light, we g…

In Episode 6, “Liars, TIgers, and Poor Communicators, Oh My”…..we cover the importance of good communication skills. During this time Of Covid-19 quarantine, we realize that we as a couple need to work on how we speak to not only each other, but how to make our communications clear with those we meet and pursue in the swinging lifestyle. We talk ab…