Lizzy Jeff is many things: A medicine woman, rap priestess, entrepreneur. But most importantly she is a proponent of spirituality and sensuality. She credits cannabis for helping her get where she is now in her spiritual and sexual journey and has made it her mission to help others reach their own "sex magic" using the power of cannabis. So how can…

Host and creator Natalie Rivera sits down with Ana Dee of Slutrepenur, and Nikki and Cami of Double Teamed to talk about what it's like having a sex podcast and what their sex lives looked like before and after starting their shows. Listen to Doubled Teamed here and follow Nikki and Cami's adventures on their Insta. Check out The Slutrepreneur Podc…

Jade has spent most of her life either being fetishized or not being taken seriously because of her height and disabilities. She’s a little person who started her sexual journey early in life, yet she still comes across people who are either surprised she can have sex at all or see her as something else to cross off their bucket list. Now a mother …

A self-taught pro-domme, Joshua Rodriguez, or Master Joshua, first got into BDSM because he was looking for connection. Not just with other people, but with himself. He's helped a lot of people in his decade of working as a pro domme. From flogging to peeing, Joshua’s clients get more than pleasure out of their session with him—they get therapy. Ch…

Nathaniel's cl*t grew after he started taking testosterone, resulting in something called “bottom growth.” For him, a trans man, it felt like he had a small penis, which made for some great orgasms but also resulted in some dysphoria. So what’s it like sleeping with Nathaniel? Well, he needs a safe space and for his partner to touch him the right w…

Getting it up was a challenge. Keeping it up was an even bigger challenge. These are just some of the struggles Aaron Canada has experienced in the last 20 years of his life as a man living with erectile dysfunction. But having ED doesn't mean you don't have a sex life...it just means you need to know some workarounds. Thankfully, Aaron has some po…

Laila (not their real name) is Muslim, kinky, polyamorous, immunocompromised, and nonbinary. She married her cousin at 18 with little sexual experience and zero sexual education. After some trial and error and kink classes, Laila discovered that not only are they hungry for pleasure, but they’re also a dom who can love more than one person. Subscri…

Maria Stavrou has enjoyed group sex since she was in her early twenties, so it made sense that she would answer a job listing for a hostess gig at a sex party company. At first, it was greeting guests, then it was being the event’s opening act, and then hit was planning the party itself. Here’s what Maria has arranged, what she’s seen, and what she…

Michael (not his real name) still remembers being made fun of for his size back in high school. And by size, we mean his size down there. Michael has a micropenis, and while reactions to it have varied, his penis size has inspired him to try new things in the bedroom and with himself. One of these new adventures involves something he never thought …

For a lot of people, the last thing on their minds when they're going through a depressive episode is sex. That rings true for writer Kiana Fitzgerald, but when it comes to her bipolar I disorder, well, that's where things get a little more complicated. What does it feel like to have sex during a manic episode, and how can you really tell the diffe…

Rachel Steele was a single mother working at a nail salon when she met a dancer who was making a lot more money than she was at that time. She realized she was in the wrong business, and within a couple of years went from dancer to cam girl to full-on producer. Her most popular content? MILF videos, including mother-son, mother-daughter, and even f…

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Carolyn was recovering from a broken heart when she realized an ingrown hair in her bikini area wasn’t what she thought it was. Herpes-positive, bisexual, and poly, Carolyn refused to let her diagnosis stop her from having sex with multiple partners at a time. Having found a community of equally promiscuous people like herself, Carolyn decided that…

Katie and her husband were fooling around when they realized that there was something wrong with her vagina. Fast forward to some years later, and Katie is now a mother who skips pool days, invests in lube, and dreams of one day using a menstrual cup. She spoke with How I F*ck about what it’s like to live with Uterus Didelphys, a rare anomaly that …

Raven Belasco always knew vampires and monsters turned her on, but it wasn’t until she met a nurse that she felt comfortable enough to bring those dark fantasies into the bedroom. From blood play to BDSM, Raven’s sexual adventures have involved hypodermic needles, fountains of menstrual blood, and even role-playing satanic rituals. Now, Raven is br…

Brian and Brenna never imagined they'd find love and kink on Craigslist, but that's exactly what happened when a newly divorced Brenna posted an ad for a kinky dominant person interested in a play relationship. Fast forward to some years later and Brenna and Brian are sharing their experiences as a nonmonogamous couple with their listeners on their…

Buck Angel was walking the streets of West Hollywood as a man in a woman’s body when he almost lost his life to a sexual transaction gone wrong. An addict for several years, Buck decided it was time to quit the alcohol and drugs and to finally transition from female to male. Now known as the “man with the vagina,” Buck Angel spoke with HIF about ho…

Sandy Jackman was living her best life as an openly gay woman in her home country of Guyana when she had acid thrown at her by a jealous ex-lover. Living with third-degree burns on the left side of her face, arms, and legs, Sandy had to go through extensive physical therapy to help ease her pain. But that wasn't the only physical activity that help…

Kelly loves her breasts...or at least she did. At just 25, she decided to have both of her breasts removed after testing positive for a gene mutation that could potentially give her breast cancer later in life. Losing one of her biggest sexual stimulators, Kelly, who has implants, has had to learn how to find pleasure in other ways. She sat down wi…

While most of us were baking bread during the pandemic, Johnisha, Destiny, and Jeron were falling in love... with each other. Their love story actually goes back years and involves a devastating breakup, a Zoom wedding, and a boat metaphor that still has some of them confused to this day. The trio talks to HIF about what it was like moving in toget…

Taylor Ellis doesn’t want to be remembered as just the “blind girl.” Her love of sex and her desire to break taboos motivated her to have sex at a young age despite her family and classmates’ judgment. Having slept with both blind and sighted people, Taylor talks to us about what she wishes sighted men would stop asking her during sex, and what an …

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From erotic fan-fiction to her sexual intercourse comment card, Amy Gravino has always had a unique view of romance and sex. Amy, who is on the autism spectrum, is a public speaker and autism sexuality advocate who allowed herself to feel sexual pleasure and love when the rest of the world told her not to. Now Amy is educating other people on the s…

Mark S. King was living out his dream in 1980 when he moved from Louisiana to West Hollywood to pursue acting. Openly gay, Mark indulged in the West Hollywood scene where gay sexual expression was celebrated. Fast forward to five years later and Mark and most of his social circle are diagnosed with HIV. Understandably scared for his life and the li…

Adult performer April Flores was in her early twenties when she unexpectedly became a muse to photographer and director Carlos Batts. Together they made it their mission to change the porn industry by proving to the world that yes, fat girls like April do have sex… good sex. Now, a porn legend in her own right, April talks to HIF about what it’s li…

Sean Saifa Wall was only a teenager when he was tricked into having a surgery he didn’t need. Born with intersex traits, doctors assigned Saifa female at birth even though his sexual anatomy didn’t match that of what is considered traditionally female. Still, his genitalia hasn’t stopped him from having some of the best sex of his life, nor has it …

Yasmin Benoit is used to making heads turn with her lingerie modeling and her asexual and aromantic activism. While Yasmin's modeling career and her lack of sexual and romantic desire for other people might be hard for some people to comprehend, Yasmin assures us that these details are actually the least "weird" things about her. Get to know Yasmin…

Mistress Maia McQueen was in her late twenties when she first started training to be a professional dominatrix. Before discovering her kinky side, Maia was a "bossy" young woman looking to be empowered after coming out of an abusive relationship. Now a pro domme with years of experience and a clientele, Maia describes the many different types of ki…

Ashley Manta is a sex and relationship coach known to many as the Cannasexual. While Ashley combines sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy, she first started using cannabis to help her cope with the multiple sexual assaults she experienced throughout her life. But before discovering cannabis's effects on her, Ashley had to figure out on her own how …

Non-black people across the U.S. are responding to the recent Black Lives Matter protests by taking time to reflect on their own internalized prejudices. But what about dating and sex? Should we also be taking time to reflect on our dating and sex habits, whether that be porn or our dating bios? In this episode of How I F*ck, we speak with Ekelle, …

Noelle came out as trans just weeks before her wedding. For some, that may seem like bad timing, but for Noelle, it was the perfect opportunity to finally present as the woman she always knew she was. Noelle sat down with How I F*ck to talk about how masturbation helped her cope with not being able to present as a woman and how transitioning inspir…

Andrew Gurza is a disability awareness consultant and the creator and host of the award-winning podcast, Disability After Dark. Andrew, who lives with cerebral palsy, was in college when he realized that traditional dating wasn’t for him and that bringing himself to orgasm would mean rethinking his relationship with sex entirely. From representatio…

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