In this video, you will learn how to avoid toxic gay men and how to set yourself up for success with gay friendships and relationships. The quest for understanding, trust, and genuine connections in relationships often leads us to a broader question: Why do toxic individuals exist, especially in the gay community? What are the roots of this toxicit…

Many single gay men often wrestle with self-blame, attributing their relationship status to personal shortcomings or misfortunes. However, it's crucial to understand that the issue often lies not with individuals, but with the broader dating landscape. Current dating services, unfortunately, can foster environments rife with toxicity and even abusi…

In this podcast, you'll learn how to meet and connect with gay men, leading to the possibility of living together in a big house. This living arrangement has the potential to become your new family—a group of men building their lives around shared values of stability, abundance, and health. Join us at https://BigGayFamily.com and meet gay men diffe…

The Value of Authenticity in Human Interactions: A Focus on Gay Men In the modern digital age, the allure of convenience and instant gratification often overshadows the intrinsic value of genuine human connection. For single gay men, the prevalent use of hookup apps can sometimes shift the focus from seeking meaningful relationships to pursuing fle…

Friends, The complexity of the human psyche is profound, and for gay men, it is often overlaid with layers of societal stigma, shame, and trauma that can manifest in various ways. One specific manifestation is an overemphasis on sexual connection at the cost of emotional or spiritual connection. By understanding the signs and root causes of this ps…

Sexual compatibility can be seen as an insecurity that protects gay men from embracing wholeness in themselves and others. Human relationships require a combination of emotion, intellect, and spirit to thrive and grow. Psychologist Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, states, "Sexual compatibility is only one piece of the puzzle. It's important, but it's not th…

In this podcast, you will learn how to stop the emotional bleeding related to meeting gay men on hookup apps such as Grindr, Scruff, and others. You will also understand the price you pay for using those services. Additionally, you will learn that there is more you can achieve, but not when you are in a cycle of trauma and fear. Enjoy the video! ✅ …

For many gay men, coming out of the closet can be one of the toughest things they'll ever do. It involves revealing your sexuality to friends, family, and the world, a process that can be incredibly challenging, both emotionally and mentally. But coming out is not limited to telling others you are gay. Proper coming out includes healthy socializati…

In this podcast, we’re discussing what it means to “come out” and what it doesn’t mean. Contrary to popular belief, going to sex parties or engaging in sexual activity with other men is not what it means to “come out.” Instead, we’ll explore what it really means to be true to yourself and your sexuality. To start, we’ll ask some questions about you…

Broken gay men are all around us. Avoiding broken gay men is required for mental health and happiness. Imagine how much time is wasted when you are in a relationship with a narcissistic man for 10 years. Not only are you getting abused for 10 years, but also you are not available for a healthy relationship during that time. In this podcast, you wil…

What will happen if you delay sex until marriage? What are the psychological benefits of delaying sex until you are married? This approach is contrary to the mainstream approach which prioritizes sex above all else (emotion, spirit, mind). The starting point is to recognize what is happening today with gay men: most gay men are anxious, depressed, …

Discover the best superfood for gay men - better than any vitamin or superfood you have ever had. This superfood will make you strong, happy, and successful! Can you guess what that is? ► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships: Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. When you meet gay men, you go through these six stages…

Why is it so difficult to stay consistent with exercise, dating, and achievement? Why are so many gay men falling apart and struggling in their lives? Why are so many gay men addicted to sex, drugs, and self-hate? What is happening underneath the surface that creates long-term suffering, anxieties, and depression for gay men? Watch this podcast to …

What is the price of staying in the closet? What is the psychological impact of being in the closet? This podcast describes what happens when a gay man is closeted and how it will affect his relationships for the rest of his life. Enjoy! ► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships: Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. Wh…

Grindr and most online hookup apps and websites, including Match.com, and OkCupid do not provide a platform for healthy communication. All conversations eventually lead to abandonment, dismissal, disrespect, and often trauma. Continuous exposure on those platforms takes away a sense of wholeness and innocence from many gay men and often turns them …

Crossing the Emotional Rubicon for gay men is impossible without proper tools and methodologies. In this podcast, you will learn about those tools and methods for creating the best relationships of your life despite all the suffering and confusion about love and dating. You will learn about the use of Gay Social Contracts: The Continuity Social Con…

Gay Sexuality Social Contract revolutionizes the approach to gay friendships and gay relationships. In this podcast, you will learn about gay social contracts and how The Big Gay Family Social Program offers tools for faster and healthier approaches to friendships and gay relationships. You will understand why we need Social Contracts and you will …

Dating through the heart offers the greatest opportunity for love and long-term relationships. So far, most gay men have focused on arousal-based dating, which is about sexual compatibility. Some gay men have tried the mental model for dating by having clarity about the criteria for lovers and looking for those gay men who match those criteria. But…

Ghosting leads to trauma and emotional abuse. Most gay men under the age of 40 are afraid of human interaction and are socially awkward - and they will ghost you instead of telling you they are anxious to meet you. Exposing yourself to ghosting causes depression, anxieties, and mental health injury. Meeting gay men in places that protect you from g…

This podcast can be a beginning of a powerful sexual transformation for any gay man who is noticing the contradiction between sexual satisfaction and the feeling of guilt and shame after sex. We will explore the importance of feelings after sexual activity. You will discover how to build the bridge between your feelings and sexual desires. You will…

Why are most gay men over 40 unhappy and lonely? Why is happiness so difficult to find amongst the gay population? Is it possible that gay men are "doing it the wrong way"? Is it possible that gay men focus on the wrong approach to life? Discover the perspectives about sex and sexual compatibility that help you bring happiness to your life and help…

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Rob chats to pop superstar KYLE BIELDFIELD, where they discuss Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, Mary Kiani's T-Dance, Claire Kitchen, the parade and party... plus RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars Three and Season 10 and his collab with Courtney Act, as well as Jessica Mauboy and EUROVISION 2018... and of course Kyle's new album MANHATTEN. Proudly bro…

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