The podcast that explores the beautiful, heartbreaking and nuanced stories of interracial dating. Two women of color share their thoughts and experiences about interracial dating. Your hosts Nkechi Njaka and Myisha Battle tackle complicated topics from what it's like for women of color to online date to how pop culture represents interracial relationships.
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Dating is complicated... but it shouldn't be! We believe dating should be as easy as 1, 2, 3... and as simple as "Black & White"! Welcome to The Black & White Dating Show! #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow #BWDShow
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#17 - iPhone Cheating 101 (aka "How to Cheat")
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Ep. #17 - iPhone Cheating 101 (aka "How to Cheat") - Juelz and Mr. Potter Esquire discuss the missteps of a cheater who doesn't know how their iPhone technology works. #Cheaters #CaughtCheating #SloppyPimpin Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discu…
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Ep. #16 - I Do NOT Want Kids! - Mr. Potter Esquire explains why kids don't fit in his crazy, lazy, exciting free-agent lifestyle! #NoKidsAllowed #TeamNoKids Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #NoKidsAllowed #TheBlackandWhiteDat…
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#15 - She Doesn't Want a Relationship Either!
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Ep. #15 - She Doesn't Want a Relationship Either! - Juliana aka "Juelz" explains how men also get clingy and don't listen when women just want to be single (aka "friends"). #Friendzoned Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #Singl…
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Ep. #14 - Sex Priority vs. Jenny Herpes - Mr. Potter Esquire explains why sex isn't at the top of his priority list anymore... and why he fears one-night-stands! #GenitalHerpes Join us live on-air! Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on…
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#13.5 - Be Our Guest... Join the Show... Live On-air!
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Ep. #13.5 - Are you ready to join in on the fun and tell us about your dating journey? If so, go to the www.bwdshow.com website and fill out the contact form! The Black & White Dating Show is a weekly podcast / video show that allows men and women to join in and discuss relationships and dating hook-ups. The Black & White Dating Show is hosted by M…
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Ep. #13 - DJs Get Groupie Love - Mr. Potter Esquire explains his 'sex schedule' during his years of being a DJ. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #GroupieLove #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the show…
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#12 - Crime Story: Almost Robbed in Miami
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Ep. #12 - Almost Robbed in Miami. Mr. Potter Esquire tells a tale of love, lust, and a potential robbery while vacationing in Miami, Florida. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #CrimeStory #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support th…
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We are all surrounded by media representations that center white people. When these narratives become tropes in storytelling, so much harm can be done to BIPOC, especially in the way that our attractions are formed. In this episode, Stephanie Quintana shares multitudes of herself and her experiences that span culture, race, and class to bring us th…
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It took 25 whole seasons to deliver a Black Bachelor, history making indeed with an enormously diverse group of contestants to boot. There was loads to celebrate until… racism. Myisha + Nkechi are here to discuss it all: the colorism, the lack of screening for racist contestants, Rachel Kirkconnell in antebellum cosplay, and finally- Rachel Lindsay…
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#11 - "I Don't Want a Relationship!"
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Ep. #11 - "I don't want a relationship" is what Mr. Potter Esquire tells his dates... but they somehow think they can change his mind!?! Why do women do this? Some men are guilty of this too! Has this happened to you? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call yo…
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#10 - Are You Still Contacting Your Ex?
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Ep. #10 - Are You Still Contacting Your Ex? Are you still cool with your ex even though you are currently in a relationship? Do you want your new bae to stop talking to their ex? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #StillContact…
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On this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha chat with Alexandra Ofori-Atta about trying to find connection through online dating in COVID, the challenges of being someone's first non-white partner and the allure of the sad white guy (something they all relate to). Listen to hear amazing anecdotes about the complexities of modern dating and wha…
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Ep. #09 - Stop Eating My Food! Mr. Potter Esquire questions why his date nights turn into 'food sample sessions' whenever the food arrives to the restaurant table. Fellas does this happen to you as well? Ladies... WHY do you do this? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info a…
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Meghan and Oprah (and Harry): How close is too close?
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In this episode Nkechi and Myisha examine what was said and unsaid when Oprah interviewed Meghan and Harry back in March. Was too much burden placed on Meghan to explain the racist events that led to her family leaving the Royals behind? And just how much sympathy should we even expect from a royal legacy of colonial imperialism? We. get. into. it.…
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#8.5 - Live Show: How Long Do You Make Him Wait for Sex?
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Ep. #8.5 - We did our first live show and asked a few ladies, when do you give up "the cookie"? First date? Two weeks? One month? 90 days? Take a listen... and join in on the next live show. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #…
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As a Black woman of mixed race, Shaquille Heath has a lot of experience navigating microaggressions pointed at her Blackness (is she Black enough?) and her long term partnership with a white man. In this episode, Shaquille describes what it was like growing up in Utah and how working in tech and then the arts has brought her further and further int…
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Season 16, i.e., 1,000,000 of The Bachelorette was WILD. If you somehow missed this history making season of reality TV, Nkechi + Myisha are here to hold your hand and break it down for you from the Dating White perspective. We're talking about interracial dating and the way it's misrepresented, and underrepresented in media. And more importantly, …
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Mycall Akeem Riley went to a predominantly white upper middle class high school. As a Black gay teen, his first crushes were on sad white boys. In this episode, Mycall reflects on his earliest attractions and the complicated experiences that led up to a no white BFs policy.
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Welcome to Season TWO of Dating White! In this episode, your hosts Myisha + Nkechi check in with each other and discuss their own journeys in processing the last year. What does the "new normal" look like now in dating and partnership? What will it look like in the future? Also, we've invited a few guests to drop in for Season Two. We're so excited…
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#08 - Ladies, How Long Do You Make Him Wait for Sex?
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Ep. #08 - Ladies, when do you give up "the cookie"? First date? Two weeks? One month? 90 days? What does your timeline look like for having sex with a guy that you recently started dating? Call in on May 18th at 9pm eastern for a live discussion. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send u…
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Ep. #07 - 'Tired Thomas' writes in to The Black & White Dating Show explaining how his libido is too low for his girlfriend. What should he do? Mr. Potter Esquire gives him some straight answers! Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-a…
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#06 - Leave Me Alone! (Potter's Rant)
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Ep. #06 - Mr. Potter Esquire expresses his disdain for unwanted visitors during his "Things that piss me off..." rant. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss dating life live on-air. #LeaveMeAlone #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the show…
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#05 - Ask A Woman - "Why Does He Ignore Me?"
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Ep. #05 - 'Frustrated Fiona' writes in for some advice on how to get her man to pay attention to her instead of his phone! Juliana (aka "Juelz") gives Frustrated Fiona some great advice about communication. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discus…
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#04 - Wife -vs- Mistress (Why Does the Side Chic Hate Her Position?)
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Ep. #04 - Why does the side chic always try to replace the wife by blowing up a good situation? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #WifevsMistress #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showAv Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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#03 - Ask a Man - "32 Year Old Virgin"
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Ep. #03 - A '32 year old virgin' needs guidance on how to initiate his first time with a woman without disappointing her. Mr. Potter Esquire lends a few words of wisdom! #32YearOldVirgin #AskAMan #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showAv Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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Ep. #02 - Juliana (aka "Juelz") uses this 'teachable moment' to give women an interesting (anal sex) tip on enhancing a man's pleasure in the bedroom. #TeachableMoment #GiveHimAnalFingers #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showAv Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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#01 - Ask a Man - "Does Size Matter?" - Tiny Tim
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Ep. #01 - A listener (Tiny Tim) feels "small" during sex, and writes in to receive advice from Mr. Potter Esquire's "Ask a Man" segment. Does (penis) size matter? Mr. Potter Esquire lends a few words of encouragement! #AskAMan #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow #BWDShow Support the showAv Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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In this bonus episode of Dating White, Myisha + Nkechi offer up a mediation for feeling into and expanding love. Whether you're celebrating self or partnered love today, we hope you to have a beautiful day!Av Dating White
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In the Season 1 Finale of Dating White, Myisha + Nkechi discuss what this season has meant for both of them, how the show has been a part of a cycle of change and how 2020 was actually the best time to start this podcast. They also share some ideas of what they’d like to address in future seasons. If you have a show idea or would like to be a guest…
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Navigating a racist world is difficult, burdensome and harmful to people of color. Implicit biases appear everywhere from partner selection to seeking healthcare and talking through issues with a partner. In this episode, Nkechi + Myisha talk about what implicit bias means, how it’s tested and how it shows up in everyday life.…
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Myisha + Nkechi sit down to discuss the responses to the pod internally and externally so far. They cover how their ideas about interracial dating and their own identities and feelings of belonging have changed over the course of the last few months making the show. They also address listener feedback and plans for Season 2!…
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Apologizing: How to and how not to cause harm
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What exactly is an effective apology? And what do we do when we are on the receiving end of non-apology when we need one? In this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha discuss the importance of apologizing, why it’s so difficult, and the components that merit an effective apology over a non-apology. They also talk about models of better behavior…
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Microaggressions During the Revolution
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What is a microaggression and what do we do when we are on the receiving end of one? In this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha discuss what happens when a well-intentioned DM causes harm to its receiver. They also talk about models of better behavior and what it means for PoCs to enforce their emotional boundaries, especially during a racial…
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It’s the show that so many of us got to escape into in the early part of Shelter In Place! Too Hot to Handle is an exploration of what it means to focus less on sex and more on connection. But one area that the show doesn’t address is race. Nkechi + Myisha talk about the pros and cons of a dating show that has a black female narrator, but doesn’t a…
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This episode of Dating White examines what a grand public display of affection looks like when a partner is intolerant of bad behavior from a family or community— and in this case an entire country. Nkechi + Myisha discuss Meghan Markle and her husband Harry, their exit from the Crown and how radical of a choice it was for Prince Harry to remove hi…
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This episode of Dating White explores what it’s like to date during a pandemic, specifically as a woman of color. Nkechi + Myisha discuss why black women are more likely to be single right now, what virtual dating feels like on the apps and why we should all be conserving our dating energy. Mentioned in the show is Myisha's dating project, COVIDeo …
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If you don’t know who Lauren and Cameron are, you’re missing out! Myisha + Nkechi discuss how Lauren and Cameron’s love unfolded before their eyes on the Netflix show, “Love Is Blind”. They also examine what it means to be equal partners in an interracial relationship and what Lauren and Cameron’s relationship can teach us about assumptions of in/e…
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We can’t talk about dating white without exploring what whiteness means. In this episode, Myisha + Nkechi discuss the complicated ways in which whiteness is assumed, acquired and enacted and the layers that must be unraveled to understand it.Av Dating White
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In this episode of Dating White, Myisha + Nkechi discuss how growing up mixed race and within predominantly white spaces shaped their realities. They share their thoughts about racial inclusion and how definitions of what is “white” or “black” can limit and isolate people of color.Av Dating White
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In the premier episode of Dating White, your hosts Nkechi + Myisha talk about their reasons for creating this relevant and timely show. In this episode, they cover their multi-racial backgrounds and professional lenses, their experiences being WOC dating white men and their intentions for building community around this important topic. Join the con…
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