Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions a ...
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Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive ...
Andee Martineau - Podcaster, Best-Selling Author, Parenting Coach
Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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How has the pandemic affected children's mental health? What is children's mental health? What is trauma? How do I know if my child has been effected by the trauma of the pandemic? Find definitions, strategies and solutions in this timely podcast!
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Rooted Working Mom, How to Mother God’s Way, Faith-Led Mom Coach, Christian Mom Podcast, Connect With Your Kids, Self Care Tips for Moms, Clarity on Motherhood Purpose, Gospel Centered Parenting
Cynthia Castro | Working Mom Holy Spirt-Led Mom Coach, Christ Centered Parenting Coach
Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom podcast! Find True Rest in Jesus, Rise in Your God-Given Authority & Raise Kingdom Kids Steward & Connect With Your Kids Through Gospel Centered Parenting, as a Busy Working Mom God-Led Wholeness Coaching in Faith, Motherhood, Wellness, & Mindset Find Clarity and Purpose in Your Motherhood Let Go of Working Mom Guilt Say Goodbye to Burnout Hey sweet mama! If you’ve been in a space of overwhelm, exhaustion, struggle, and feeling like you are just not good eno ...
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How To Break Up With Your Phone | CP197
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11:30In this episode, we’re flipping the script. We spend so much time worrying about our kids’ screen time, but what about our own? The truth is, our relationship with our devices is affecting our focus, emotional health, and ability to be present for our children. And let’s be real—our kids are watching. Have you ever tried to watch a show without che…
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Ep #124 Going All In: Why Half-Hearted Parenting is Like Training for the Olympics in Flip-Flops
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50:50We're diving DEEP into what it really means to go all in - not just in parenting, but in life. And before you think "Oh great, another episode about trying harder" (I see you, I hear you), this is actually about something completely different. Remember Eddie the Eagle? That gloriously awkward British ski jumper who showed up at the Olympics having …
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Ep #123 The Past Only Exists In Your Head (And Why That Changes Everything About Parenting)
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46:33Hey there, beautiful souls! 👋 In today's episode, we're diving deep into the messy, beautiful world of self-forgiveness and what it really means to "fail" as a parent. Imagine you've just had one of those moments where your kid's room looks like a tornado had a party with a hurricane, and you...may have slightly lost your cool. 😬 We've all been the…
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Ep #122 From 'I Can't' to 'Watch Me': The One Where We Break Up with Parenting Self-Doubt
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34:08Ready for some real talk about that annoying roommate in your head called self-doubt? In this episode, we're getting cozy with our insecurities (but not TOO cozy - we're not giving them the comfy chair!) and discovering why that pesky voice of doubt might actually be your biggest cheerleader in disguise. ✨ Key Takeaways: Why self-doubt is actually …
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Arguing With A Teenager In The Age Of Social Media | CP196
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25:34Welcome back, connected parents, to another episode of the Connected Parenting podcast! Today, we're tackling a topic that many parents find incredibly frustrating—arguing with a teenager—but with a modern twist: the influence social media has on these conflicts. Teenagers have always been challenging to argue with. Conversations can escalate from …
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Ep #121 The Confidence Catch-22: Why Believing You're 'Not Enough' is Actually Keeping You From Being Enough
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25:30Finding your parenting confidence is NOT about being perfect and more about embracing your inner 'I'm totally winging this but also kind of crushing it' energy. Today we're diving deep into the world of self-confidence. The "Not Enough" Trap: Why this thought is about as helpful as chocolate-covered broccoli The moment I realized self-doubt was jus…
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Ep #120 Ease vs Evolution: A Parent's Guide to Growing Pains
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37:18For everyone who's ever looked at their parenting journey and thought "This is... not what I expected" - this one's for you. Bonus points if you're currently listening to this while hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace! Quick question - ever had one of those moments where you're just living your life, and suddenly you find yourself cryi…
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Negative consequences—while the term might sound harsh, the reality is that some kids truly thrive when they know they are surrounded by sturdy, solid, immovable limits. There are certain children, especially strong-willed or "gladiator" kids as I call them, who push back against every boundary—insisting they don’t need rules, testing limits at eve…
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Ep #119 Don’t Stop Believin’: The Irresistible Parenting Protocol in 5 Simple Steps
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47:01Hey, hey, my favorite parents! Have you ever found yourself caught in the "should have, would have, could have" trap with your kids? Or maybe you’ve hoped (or begged) they’d just listen this time—and felt that creeping frustration when they didn’t? Yep, I’ve been there, too. In today’s episode, we’re diving into The Irresistible Parenting Protocol—…
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Ep #118 When Your Best Doesn't Feel Like It's Enough
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48:25We’ve all had those moments where we put in so much effort, tried so hard, and still fell short. It’s frustrating, humbling, and, let’s be honest, sometimes it makes us want to give up. But what if those moments were exactly what we needed? In today’s episode, I’m diving into what happens when life doesn’t go as planned. Whether it’s your personal …
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Parenting can be a beautiful journey, but it often brings challenges that strain relationships. From the demands of daily life to the push-and-pull dynamics of kids testing boundaries, the connection between parents can sometimes feel like it’s taking a back seat. In this week's episode I explore how vital it is to protect and prioritize this bond,…
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Ep #117 This is What’s Happening: The SOS Method for Parenting Without Losing It
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29:48Ever feel like you’re caught in a parenting Groundhog Day? The tantrums, the fights, the endless messes... all while you’re trying your hardest to hold it together? Same. In this episode, we’re diving into something I call the SOS Method—a simple but powerful way to shift out of survival mode and into connection. We’re talking about how to stay pre…
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Ep #116 Much Ado About Questions: Turning Good Questions Into BIG Parenting Wins
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38:41Hey, hey, friends this week, we’re talking about something deceptively simple but ridiculously impactful: questions. Yep, those little sentences we toss around in our heads all day long are either helping us grow—or keeping us stuck. I’m sharing a personal story from my recent trip to New Zealand where a tug-of-war over a sea cave (yes, a literal s…
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Welcome to the first Connected Parenting episode of 2025! After spending the holidays with my family, I’m excited to reconnect with all of you. The holidays are often a mix of joy, warmth, and togetherness, but they can also bring tension, big feelings, and unresolved conflicts. As Ram Dass so wisely put it, "If you think you're enlightened, go spe…
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Ep #115 Great Expectations: Overcoming Victim Mentality to Connect with Your Kids
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40:36Ever feel like you're stuck in the blame game? Like if your kids would just behave better, everything would be fine? Oh, friend, this one's for you. 🎙️ In today’s episode of the Connect Method Parenting Podcast, I’m diving deep into two mindsets that can either make or break your parenting journey: victim mentality and vulnerability. Here’s the tru…
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Ep #114 We Can Work It Out: Strategies for Problem-Solving in Parenting
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49:08If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop of parenting problems that never seem to go away, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing a perspective shift that will change how you approach challenges—not just in parenting but in every area of your life. We’re breaking down The STEAR Framework (it’s a game-changer!) and diving deep into how our thoughts …
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Ep #113 MVP: Why Rewards and Punishments Don’t Work - the Parenting Revolution You Need
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21:56Hey, hey, everyone! Andee here! 🖐️ Let’s dive into a topic that is near and dear to so many of us—because, let’s be honest, we’ve all tried it—corrective parenting. You know, the old-school model of using rewards and consequences to manage behavior that doesn’t work long-term. Today, I’m breaking down exactly why. In this episode, we’re getting rea…
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Ep #112 Your Best Year Yet: Reflecting, Reinventing and Redeciding Your Parenting
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33:35Whether it’s January or August, Monday morning or Thursday afternoon, the opportunity to start fresh is always available. In this episode, we explore: Reinvention vs. Progress: How fundamentally transforming your mindset, routines, and beliefs can change everything. The Power of Questioning Norms: Why parenting by default rules (early bedtimes, din…
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Ep #111 What If Your Weaknesses Weren’t a Problem?
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19:05Weaknesses—we all have them, but most of us try to hide, fix, or fight them. Here’s the thing: embracing your weaknesses isn’t just good for you; it’s good for your parenting. When you understand and accept all parts of yourself, you show up with more patience, compassion, and connection for your kids. In this episode, we’re talking about: Why avoi…
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Discover how embracing discomfort and leaning into challenging conversations and behavior can strengthen your relationship with your kids. Whether you're dealing with a teenage boy obsessed with video games or confronting values that clash with your own beliefs, I'm sharing practical advice on how to stay connected and supportive. By coming alongsi…
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Ep #109 MVP: Stop the Power Struggles - A New Way to Connect With Your Kids
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40:53Today we're flipping the script on parenting challenges, showing you how to ditch the “right vs. wrong” mindset and embrace a whole new way of connecting. Whether your kids are throwing tantrums, skipping curfews, or leaving their dishes untouched (again), my practical tools—like the Peace Process and STEAR Model—will help you show up calm, confide…
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Ep #108 Visioning the Holidays: Creating Intentional Family Gatherings
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35:51With the holidays just around the corner, it's crucial to show up in a way that fosters beautiful memories with our loved ones. That's why I've invited my dear friend Jennifer to join us in this episode. Jennifer is a master at intentional event creation, and I've learned so much from her over the years. In our conversation, we explore the concept …
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The holidays are a magical time, but they can also be overstimulating and stressful for children, particularly for those with strong-willed or highly sensitive personalities. In today’s episode, we dive into the joys and challenges of the holiday season—especially when it comes to managing big emotions and behaviors in kids. Jennifer's Takeaways: W…
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Yo, friends! 🎉 Can you believe 2025 is knocking at the door? Neither can I—time flies when you’re trying to keep your kids alive and help them become amazing humans, right? This episode is all about a simple yet powerful idea: future-self videos. Inspired by YouTube personality MrBeast, we’re diving into how talking to your future self can spark cl…
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Ep #106 Unlock the Power of Thoughtwork: Parenting with Clarity and Calm
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40:19What if your thoughts are shaping more of your parenting experience than you realize? In this episode, we unpack thoughtwork, the powerful process of understanding and reshaping the patterns in your brain that drive emotions, actions, and results. Learn how tools like STEAR and Daily Peace help you identify subconscious beliefs, process emotions ef…
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Some parents shy away from using rewards or positive consequences, fearing it might feel like bribery or paying their kids to behave. While overusing this method can backfire, when used thoughtfully, positive reinforcement can be a powerful way to encourage better behavior, build positive habits, and instill confidence in your child. Join me as we …
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Ep #105 10 Thoughts About Parenting
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32:31Ever wondered what parenting, Mexican food, jet lag, and 84-degree ocean water have in common? Buckle up for this episode, where I take you behind the scenes of my travels (hello from Thailand!) and into the heart of Connect Method Parenting. Here’s what’s on the menu: 🌮 How craving connection is a lot like craving Mexican food when you’re miles aw…
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Ep #104 How Determination Shapes Your Parenting Journey
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58:32Hello, friends! 🌟 Today, we're diving into the all-important concept of parental determination. It all started with a dinner conversation about cars that unexpectedly turned into a deep dive into resilience, grit, growth, and determination. I knew I had to share this with you. Here's what we're unpacking: The Power of Determination: Discover why de…
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Anger As The Default Emotion | CP190
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17:23In this episode of Connected Parenting, we explore why anger is often the default emotion for neuro-spicy gladiator kids. Whether they’re tired, scared, overwhelmed, or even hungry, these children often express their emotions as anger—a response that’s challenging for parents to handle. Learn how to decode the feelings behind your child’s outbursts…
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Hey, who do you think you are?! And who do you think your kids are? The answer is what I call a narrative. You've got one about bedtime, one about the kids fighting (of course), and oh, here's a fun one... the messy house. Yep, all of it lives inside the stories you tell yourself every day. Today we're taking a look at your narratives, and how they…
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One of the biggest ways that we thwart our growth and, ultimately, our success as parents is by living through the habits, patterns, and identities of our past that no longer serve us. Ultimately what you WANT and decide to do impacts how you parent. Your wants lead to decisions and the decisions you make are the point of power in your life and wit…
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In this week's episode of Connected Parenting, we are talking about a common parenting challenge: kids faking illnesses to avoid school or other commitments. While many parents can recall pulling the same trick in their childhood, handling it as an adult brings up a whirlwind of emotions—guilt, frustration, doubt, and even anger. How do you balance…
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Whether you’re stuffing your face with turkey or just looking for a fresh take on gratitude, this episode will be your go-to. I've got a simple (and surprisingly fun) exercise for you: the “want-have” list. Trust me —it’s like gratitude on steroids. Hit play and let's get started. Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast…
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Ep #100 Getting vs Giving Attention
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29:36Tired of chasing after your kids' attention, wishing they’d just listen already? Plot twist: instead of trying to get their attention through behavior battles, let’s flip the focus to giving them the kind of attention that matters. In this episode, we’re breaking down why high-quality, intentional attention is the secret sauce to getting the connec…
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76: How to Help Your Child Choose Healthy Friends at School: Building Faithful Friendships
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20:45Hello Mama! Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom Podcast, where we empower God-led working moms to nurture their faith while successfully navigating our careers and family life. Now that the new school year is well underway and parent/teacher conferences wrap up, I was reminded that one of the important areas of focus for us as moms is the friendships…
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Welcome to another episode of Connected Parenting! Today, we’re tackling a topic many parents struggle with—consequences. From figuring out what’s fair, natural, and effective to dealing with those moments when your overreaction leaves you questioning how to backtrack. In this episode, I’ll walk you through practical strategies to establish meaning…
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I teach about Emotional Expression ALL. THE. TIME! If you're in League with me (my amazing CMP implementation program) you've heard me talk nonstop about this. Because taking the trip from Mad --> Sad is where it's at. Today I'm taking you on a bit of a journey. I'm sharing an experience from earlier this week where I allowed myself, okay let's be …
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Ep #98 Massive vs. Passive Action In Parenting
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49:49Are you consuming or creating? Are you thinking about doing something, or are you actually doing it? We're diving into the difference between massive and passive action in parenting. As the holidays approach, we're talking about how to maintain a calm, confident, and connected parenting approach, no matter the season. Explore the concept of massive…
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Sensory Play For Kids With Big Feelings | CP187
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16:56Today, we're diving into the power of play, especially for kids with big emotions that feel too large for their small bodies to handle. These big-feeling kids often experience surges of emotion that can lead to outbursts, clinginess, or even cycles of frustration and shame. But with the right kind of play, we can help them release these overwhelmin…
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Ep #97 The Power of Organizing Your Mind: A Live Training
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49:35By pulling out and examining our thoughts and emotions, we can decide which ones serve us and which ones need to be let go. This practice is crucial for maintaining a calm and connected parenting approach, especially in emotionally charged situations. Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast…
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Ep #96 Empathy, Presence, Connection
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58:06I'm sharing practical insights on building connection with children through empathy, presence, and truly seeing and hearing them. I share one of my favorite poems of all time by John Rodel. It doesn't have a title but I call it “The Tear Catcher.” This poem captures the power of being there without trying to fix, showing how empathy can create a la…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we’re diving into a fundamental concept in effective parenting—self-regulation. Titled “Be That to See That,” this episode explores the critical role our own emotional regulation plays in helping our children manage their emotions and behaviors. Parenting is a journey filled with joy, laughter, and priceless …
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In this powerful finale of our five-day Connect Method Parenting Bootcamp, we’re wrapping up with the ultimate blueprint for connection-first parenting! I’m guiding you through creating a parenting structure rooted in trust, influence, and, most importantly, connection with your child. Just like you wouldn’t build a house without a blueprint, this …
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I understood exactly three words: rápido, izquierda, and muy bien. But I didn’t need to know Spanish to get the point—the instructor’s tone, expression, energy, and body language said it all. Just like your tone, expression, energy, and body language say it all to your kids. They can read you like a hawk. That's why parenting "tips and tricks' aren…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, I dive into a concept I call emotional glare—a phenomenon that every parent of a strong-willed, reactive child has likely experienced. If you have a sassy, feisty, gladiator child who seems to be in constant conflict with the world, you know exactly what I’m talking about. Emotional glare is what happens when…
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Today, we're diving into the heart of what makes parenting click—connection! We'll explore why attachment is our #1 need and how it shapes every little interaction with our kids. Join Andee as she shares gems from her recent five-day training, giving you the inside scoop on the Connect Method Parenting framework. Whether you're ready for the Parent…
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Today's focus is on emotions, nervous systems, and triggers. We explore how our perceptions shape our emotional experiences and how to navigate these emotions with compassion and understanding. The PEACE process helps us pause, explore, affirm, and create new responses, fostering emotional regulation and deeper connections with our children. Let's …
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To celebrate us starting the PIVOT this week, I'm sharing a five day training I did about a month ago with you all. So excited to share it. It's going to be a great resource for everyone who's starting the PIVOT with me this week because we're going to be spending the next eight weeks deep div…
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TODAY IS THE LAST DAY TO APPLY FOR THE PIVOT!! The PIVOT is an 8-Week program where you learn the entire CMP Framework in 8 weeks and orientation week starts on MONDAY!!! In 8 weeks, moms who've gone through the PIVOT reported a 251% improvement in their kids listening (without threats) and a 246% increase in their ability to handle challenging sit…
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For most kids Halloween and the time leading up to it can be really fun and they love it. But for a lot of very sensitive children the feelings and reactions can be quite the opposite and extremely anxiety provoking. Everywhere they look they are seeing scary images on every lawn, and on every commercial on television, there’s images of witches, gh…
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