We are a group of people who have created a safe space for people from diverse backgrounds to open up by way of healthy dialogue amongst peers discussing life, love and business. Opening up sharing our views, lifestyle choices and experiences for the world to see that our blended views may make us different but when communicated effectively to gain understanding it also shows us that we're alike in many ways and our differences are what keeps us all evolving.
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Diddy Mist, Sassy Pecs, Scheduled Crying & Weird Confessions
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In today's episode, Kaneesha and Sio are back with their foolishness for pure entertainment lol. We jump around on many different topics from current events to digging into their personal lives. What are some things that men do that they think are turn ons but really women think they are turn off's, have you ever revealed the wildest place you've e…
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Shower Etiquette, Hat Fished, Love Loop Holes & Cheating vs Being Cheated On
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In today's episode, we are joined by Caylin and Coco and we sit down and chop it up about a few interesting topics that have been floating around as well as things that come up through our conversation. Everyone knows that we love starting off episodes with a little bit of banter and today we started off with a little bit of shower etiquette and wh…
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A Candid Convo w/ Caylin, At What End Was Your Start
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In todays episode, Dre sits with Caylin and has a candid conversation about different life scenarios, mindset shifts and circumstances that inevitably led to something she takes extremely serious, mental health. Have you ever wondered what had to end in order for you to start over, what has to be let go or addressed as well. Necessary actions must …
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In today's episode, the fellas do a check in with one another and put a huge emphasis on the MEN part of MENtal health. We as men often times go without expressing ourselves and releasing a lot of the things we go through on a day to day basis and as good as we are at processing things ourselves and keeping it moving, there are times that you need …
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Field Trips, Favorite Life Moments & Women Helping Men
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In today's episode, Dre and Sio chop it up about a lot of random topics that we can all relate to. Memories of excitement the night before a field trip as a kid, reminiscing about our last favorite moment, would Sio be with a man who request wild fantasies to be played out in real life and if a man fell on hard times would his lady be there for him…
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Fades & Facials w/ The Hamptons
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In today's episode we sit down with Wade & Jasmin Hampton a power couple bursting onto the scene in the beauty industry. We often times see couples that are entrepreneurs highlighting all the success and good things that are happening and we're left in the dark about the failures, pit falls, road blocks and breakdowns, so today we got the good, the…
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Sex On The First Date, Relationship Perspectives, & Heavy On No Kids
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In today's episode, we have a wide range of topics we discuss in order to gather the perspectives from the single male and single female and how they may align or differ. Ladies have you ever bought your man or a guy flowers and fellas would you be receptive if a woman bought them for you? What's a good character trait of yours that someone else ha…
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Running Red Lights, Starving The Cat & Spontaneous Dates
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In today's episode, Valentine's conversation leads to other hot topics and revelations. Dre digs deep into Sio and Caylin's personal business about dating, sex life, and in turn, the ladies ask questions to better understand a man's perspective on things. Ladies would you ever go on an "On The Spot" date with a complete stranger, fellas would you r…
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In today's episode Dre and Sio decide to have some lighthearted fun and ask would you rather questions. You never know what's going to be asked and more importantly you never know what someone's answer is going to be, especially when sitting down with Sio!Av Blended Views Unfiltered
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Is There An Allergy To Accountability
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In today's world we tend to have blurred lines when it comes to the breaking up or breaking off of a relationship, situationship or even a friendship that has certain benefits attached to them, who's the blame when it happens or is that blame shared? Unfortunately there's one narrative that holds more weight then the other in a lot of cases and som…
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In today's episode Sio and Dre has a conversation deriving from random thoughts and questions. Have you ever wondered what would happen to your relationship if a freak accident happened and it caused physical damage to you, would you expect your significant other to stay with you or would you stay if it was flipped? If your man wanted a meal made a…
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In today's episode, Josh and Caylin join us in the first podcast of the year as we discuss a few hot topics. The year has started off hot with the Katt Williams interview, the Swag Surfing controversy, Simon Biles husband and TD Jakes possibly being a power bottom and we touch on all these topics to get everyones perspectives, thoughts and concerns…
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If I'm Not Posted Then It Aint Real, Phone Privacy & Family Ties
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In today's episode, the crew is back along with our guest co-host Kenny and we're at it with a mix up of topics. Jonathan Majors is a hot topic right now with a verdict of guilty coming in from him, we touch on this along with scenarios about what happens if our phones were snatched by a significant other, what would our reaction be. Have you ever …
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The holiday season is here and with Thanksgiving right around the corner we decide to have a couple friends on for a Friendsgiving chat. In today's episode we mix it up with a variety of topics that are sure to have you laughing, thinking, and shifting your perspective as well. The phone on the ceiling challenge starts things off along with the cre…
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In today's episode, we have Mel on with us again, and we jump into the topic of career choices over relationships and friendships. We often times out the cart before the horse and fail to have certain hard conversations such as, if my career takes me out of state or out of country would you come with me or is our relationship over, the crew shares …
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Highlight Reels & Dinner Dates
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In today's episode, Mel joins us in a conversation full of very interesting topics. Have you ever wondered about your partner's past? What if you could watch a highlight reel of their past, especially past relationships, would you hold what you seen against them, would you be able to keep in mind it was before you or had absolutely nothing to do wi…
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Old Flames, Instant Break Ups & The Restaurant List
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In today's episode, Chris Gunther joins in on the conversation that has several different topics all from the males perspective. Rekindling an old flame can be a difficult in some cases and in other case it can actually be easy and delightful, and today we give our opinions on how we would attempt to rekindle with an ex girlfriend or old flame. We …
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Honorable Men Do Exist-A Sit Down w/ Nick
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In today's episode, we sit down and interview our co-host Nick. Many of you have grown to love his humor, perspectives, and opinions that strike up great debates, but today we get to dive into the man, husband, friend, entrepreneur that Nick is. We often times get a good look at the outer shell of a person and we take that and run with it never rea…
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Sex Teasing, Cuffing Season & Your Favorite Celebrity Relationships
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In today's episode, we have another episode that we just sit and have a casual conversation about random topics, having sex with kids in the house, weaponizing sex, sex teasing, apologies, idolizing celebrity relationships, and the ladies give the fellas some advice about cuffing season as it's about to be in full swing. With many opinions and pers…
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In today's episode, the crew is joined by a familiar face Chayla in a host of hot topics that are sure to get your mind going. How does friend-zoning really work and do you treat people the same after they reveal their feelings to you? Some revelations and perspectives changed during this convo and we give our thoughts and opinions about this. Woul…
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In today's episode, the spotlight shines on one of our favorites when Nick & Dre interview Sio. For all those who has followed BVU we've done a 1 on 1 with Sio before but it's been well over a year so we chopped it up with her to pick her brain, borrow a piece of her heart, indulge in some laughter and learn more of who Big Mama is at her core. It'…
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Everyday People: Jasmine Hampton of J.Jenee Spa
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In today's episode, we sit and chop it up with Jas the founder and CEO of J.Jenee Spa. Everyone has the need or want for relaxation and to look and feel good, especially the everyday woman who puts everyone above herself and often neglects this area due to working, being a mom, wife etc. and it ends up driving you straight to the therapist vs. the …
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Death Of An Ex & Late Night Disappointments
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Has it ever crossed your mind how you'd react to the death of an ex, even if you happened to be in a new relationship and maybe even married? Many different scenarios could be played out surrounding this topic and many have lived through times like this and there's been many different outcomes. In today's episode we discuss this topic and break dow…
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Real Estate Literacy w/ Tone Robinson
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In today's episode real estate and financial consultant Tone Robinson joins the crew for another power packed episode. Coming out of one of the best real estate era's post pandemic we witnessed a massive shift in the market in which many consumers took advantage of, but for people like Tone who does this for a living he was already in position pre …
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Is Semen A Natural Remedy, Wants & Needs
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In today's episode, the crew covers various topics but there's a couple that really stand out. Does semen really aid in easing headache's, does it help with morning sickness and is it good for the skin or are these just man made facts in order for men to get off their sexual urge? The crew has a funny explanation to this question as well as some in…
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Being The Bigger Person, Transactional Values & Reputation Evaluation
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In today's episode we take a gut check and evaluate not only how we view ourselves but also how those in close proximity view us as well. Is your reputation accurate to how you are in your everyday life or is it just a version of you while the rest of you is hidden or maybe even just simply put, fake. Does being the bigger person always feel good? …
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In today's episode we discuss ego boosting by way of dating someone who may be considered "ugly". Have you ever considered "talking" to or dating someone who you find less attractive, but they checked off most or even all of your boxes? Finding someone who is below your normal standards in the looks department may be of huge benefit to you especial…
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Apologies vs Reconciliations, Vacation Cheating & The Risky Friend
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In today's episode, we dive deep into some juicy topics that will be sure to strike up conversations with not only your spouse or bf/gf but also in your group chats and friend groups. After an apology, most people want the issue or situation to go back to normal or to simply move on but do we ever stop to think that although the apology was warrant…
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Everyday People: Jessica Viera of Viera's Vision
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Everyday people is a new segment that we will be doing that will highlight the people we come across everyday single day. Often times we as a society put a lot of focus on celebrities and entertainers as well as endlessly scrolling not realizing that we have heroes among us as well as people that we would 100% relate to and with if we actually knew…
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There's A Villain In Every Story
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Today a couple crew members along with a special guest Jessica of Viera's Vision, has an enlightening conversation about several different topics regarding differences and similarities between men and women. Why does there have to be a villain in every break up no matter if it's a romantic relationship, friendship or partnership? One has to wonder …
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Alabama Brawl, Struggle Meals & Back To School Season
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In today's episode, the crew talks about the Alabama brawl that went viral and how things would have gone down had we been a part of it as well as pointing out some key brawlers that were in the action. We also talk about struggle meals and the back-to-school season and how we use to do things back in the day compared to now, going to sleep early, …
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Tip Culture, CIS Women & Interviewing A Therapist
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The ladies give us their opinion on CIS women and if they buy into it, think a lot into it, or just simply don't care, we also talk about the new tip culture and how that is expanding. Have you ever wondered how it looks behind the scenes of a therapist, counselor, or physiatrist? We often times unload our issues, problems, concerns, etc onto other…
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Black Woman I See You & I'm Proud Of You
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In today's bonus episode, we do something outside of the norm and Dre asks the ladies to pour into one another verbally, whether it be by encouragement, compliment, advice, direction, or prayer. Although we're sure it does happen, not publicized as often as it should be, women genuinely conversating and uplift one another with no hidden agenda and …
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In today's episode, in Sio's words, "We have a freaking blast" discussing her new venture, utilizing her talents as a producer. We also have a guest from The Comfy Couch and we dive into questions about fantasies, weddings, toxic traits, and much more. This is a very funny yet enlightening conversation as you'll learn some new things as well as get…
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Sio's Hangover, 600lb Life & Wild Experiences
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In today's episode, Sio speaks about her imaginary relationship with Sammie after going to his concert, she also gives a detailed story about her sex on the beach experience. We also speak on a number of other topics such as the mile-high club, getting knee-grow surgery, liking big bodies or not, 600lb life, if it's right or wrong to keep you chang…
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When You Say No To A Marriage Proposal
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Have you ever thought about what happens if you ever said NO to a marriage proposal? How about if you don't receive the blessing from the father or family of the woman you plan to marry? In today's episode, we discuss these scenarios as well as some of our own experiences. We can all say what we'd do in many different instances but, when we face th…
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The Keke & Usher Takeover, What Would You Do
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In today's episode, the crew discusses the very hot topic of Keke Palmer and Usher's spicy interaction and the outfit that came along with it. Was it really the outfit that had her man jumping on social media releasing all of his feelings or was it an underlying issue that he didn't want to reveal? Either way, we share our thoughts and opinions as …
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Fathers Day Gift, Submarine's and The Fling That Keeps On Flinging
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On today's episode, Dre and Sio discuss various topics that are trending and Dre presents Sio with a variety of scenarios throughout the episode on how she would handle herself and why she thinks others handle themselves in certain situations as well. The best Father's Day gift ever is displayed for everyone to see, how and why are people deciding …
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Who's the real blame? The person who's in a relationship and cheats or the person who they cheat with? We hear so much about the hostility surrounding the person who's not in the relationship and who's usually deemed the "homewrecker" but who really wrecked the home? In today's episode, the crew gives their opinions on the matter opening up a bigge…
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In today's episode, we pick up the conversation surrounding trauma and how it affects how we approach relationships as well as parenting and friendship. Not everyone experiences trauma, and for those that do it doesn't all look and feel the same for everyone, but one thing it definitely does for everyone is causes you to change whether that be in a…
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Would You Date Someone That...
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Would you date a person who parents a child that is not there's? Do you date according to how lonely you are? Does a lot of your decision-making depend on your family's opinions? In today's episode, we discuss these topics along with a few more, uncovering different perspectives and even raising concerns about just how scary dating can be if we're …
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Want To Take Me On A Date? Then Come Correct!
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In today's episode, we come up with some interesting perspectives when it comes to how and when a man should ask a woman on a date. Is it levels to this dating game, or is it a one size fits all kind of approach. We often find ourselves settling in one sense and in another not giving a chance to someone based on either our standards, others' opinio…
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Don't Get Left Behind, Be Prepared
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In today's episode, we discuss how our network affects the way we move. More times than not our network includes family and friends, but have we ever evaluated if the people in our network would be there for us in our time of need? Not only financially, but spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and even when it comes to us relocating to another city …
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Common Sense Just Isn't Too Common
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In a world where trends, unorthodox parenting, bold face lying and false self perception is the new normal, the lack of common sense and ethics are at an all time high. In today's episode, we discuss Ja Morant, the corny guy kids today vs back in the day and do women answer the door half naked, especially while in relationships. Some say common sen…
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Building The Bridge: Real Estate, Investing & Financial Literacy w/ Tone Robinson
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In today's episode, we sit down with Tone Robinson of DTS Property management and talk about real estate, investing, generational wealth and life hacks that we can use on a daily basis not only in our lives but also for those who have children. If you've ever wondered how to break into the real estate industry or need to know where to put that extr…
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Culture Vulture, The N Word & The New Generation
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In today's episode, we discuss a hot topic surrounding an interview that has gone viral about Grant Cardone's comments about how he targets the african american community and if he will face backlash let alone apologize. We also get into a discussion about the heavy use of the N word and if the use of it will ever come to an end along with many oth…
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This week we got all the fellas together for a guys night and decided to do a podcast and share with the world some of the things we talk about when we're all together. We discuss masculine women, cheating, manhood and things we had to do and even go through to make us who we are today. We give you a great look into the mindset of men that will sur…
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Is Having Bad Credit A Deal Breaker
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There are many things that are deciding factors when it comes to pursuing someone or skipping right past them when you start intentionally dating, especially when you're dating to marry. Often times red flags are ignored due to lust, status, attention, or fear of missing out, and important questions either go unanswered or are never even asked unti…
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Love's Journey: How 2 Became One
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This month we celebrate 2things, Valentines day and Black History month and in today's episode we have a guest couple who will celebrate their 27th wedding anniversary!! It was only right that we start the month off celebrating black love and what better way to learn from the good parts of love but to also hear about the ugly side of it as well. In…
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In today's bonus episode we discuss the very sad unfortunate events that led to the death of Tyre Nichols. We often times don't see justice and when we do it's usually not done so swiftly and in the manner in which it happened this time. This time we seen it happen how we always thought it should and thats where we now understand that the system do…
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